My father was a businessman, made of pork business, which is some pride and bragging of their career people called "butcher." My mother is a housewife, village-style housewife.
My father and my father's career. My father is not very high this year, the age, only 46 years old this year, but it seems there are more than 50 a. He and other businesses to do the same as pork, pork sold in the market, not in the supermarket. My father was young a lot of pain eating their three brothers, my father estimated more bitter to eat it. Hear my grandmother say, 16 years old my father started the business of pork. 16 years old, I had just graduated from junior high school exam, there is no means to make money, even today I read in college, they are still asking for money to eat and drink to live. He was young, my mother married, buy a house requires 600, not less money, there is no adult at home, no way, with certain sales by a few pounds of millet, only to raise enough. At that time, he is risking their lives millet borrowed only then finally delivered to the store to get just a good 600, bought two tile roofs, I and my brothers was born and raised in the house that big W . I have forgotten this history listen to adults talk about how many times, each could hear tears.
My father's job is to sell pork. He was 3 to 4 o'clock every morning to open the car out sourcing pork, with a time most people are still sleeping in it. No matter how bad snow storm, so every day. Previously, we were young, that is when he has not bought a car, go earlier. Summer vacation I would go back every day to know when he went out. Every day he went out, and my will to my brother's room to walk around inside. In the summer, to see if there mosquitoes, if so, the point of a cheap mosquito repellent works well, there is no point on the mosquito bite me; winter, take a look at our quilt cover to strict strict, will not to be cold, in fact, I know that his shoes did not dry at night if you are wearing wet out. Fortunately the summer, a good road car, relatively smooth, but the business is difficult, one day earn much money, the summer home of more things, and sometimes do go to bed late, but still get up early. Some well-meaning students and uncle tried to persuade me not to go back to the summer vacation, study and work out the same, but I still firmly back, not for anything else, just as my parents less tired of our points. If I do not go back, my parents need to rely on their two hands, large and small things bit by bit, the family have done, and that the addition of a number of tired, tired; If I go back, my brother will go, a person reunion, although I am not very many things well, but I can always do a little more or less, even if it is to cook a meal, fry a vegetable, waiting for them to come back with hot meals to eat is also good. Winter cold, he is out of business as early as one day not to do business one day with no money to us, but he never ask for money when we did not give us. Frozen ice road, the road is slippery, driving need to be very cautious, but also to protect the back of the car one day hope. Drove up, bleak, so little clothing and scarves on how to ward off the kind of cold? I winter at home, curled up watching him every day to drive back, come back a few minutes after the fire go out into the hearth baking, cooking and then began to eat up. In this way of doing business, day by day, day by day need to make our tuition, living expenses. Even in the bumper 30, the morning she is going to sell pork that point, come back to eat up at noon, afternoon, and uncles went to our ancestors and make dinner.
My mother was a housewife, a typical village in the kind of housewife. When she was young and very beautiful, can be seen from the photo. Her every day, busy, busy busy fields of the things home. She planted and harvested every year in many agricultural products, our annual summer vacation to go back there will be a lot of things to eat. Many kinds of chili at home, other people do not eat chili, my family had, but also pepper gray (chili powder), and sometimes they land there to my house to pick. They need to buy peanuts at home every year, my family is a New Year peanut bucket a bucket of fried. Their home was dark and fried peanuts, roasted peanuts, my family, you definitely do not see is roasted. My family poultry flocks, eating my favorite summer duck blood, and Dongan chicken. The most tired of is the home more than a dozen acres of rice planted, during the two guns are light from the open mouth of busy day just Man is not clear. If pumping, it may not sleep all night hour or two. I go back every summer to help out all guns, and this year I did a month.
My mother's temper and point of urgency, a little irritable, strict in our childhood. Childhood, we are often wrong thing to be beaten for. Because of her abuse, brother and I listen to other people's children than adults, then, more polite, more able to endure hardship, more hard work. Although the first half of the way brothers do not go smoothly, but also proved his strength and ability a lot of money. In recent years, the mother's temper much better, although sometimes still be at home training. She also has weak side, and the whole world's mother is the same. I have two years in college, this year the junior year, my father did not come to see me on the train, only one person to my mother's. Several times before he is sure to come to see me got, and this is probably not very good business, it did not come. My mom up early, made a fragrant and delicious meals, cooked my grandmother sent me eggs. We dined, all the way to silence the station. I buy a platform ticket sheets, anti-back when bidding on afar off with her sitting weeping. Thick red bags under the eyes, showing usually tell our love. Got to help me put things put away. I looked at her, looking for something more than words to say a few words with her, to find out a few on the topic also said no. Later, they are silent, not a minute passed, leave the car there are more than 10 minutes, she said, or else to go on car is about to leave, but I hope to see more of her than ah. She continues, I do not see her in the car, and later, the car away, I saw her, was weeping, red eyes. Instant of time, spotlessly clean of heart, sour nose, tears blurred my sight. So relentless, the car with my left, leaving my parents left my home.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Believe they can do it
1 Do not lose ambition and desire for ambition and desire (in this case is a positive state of the ambitions and desires) can make a person's power play to the extreme, a person can be forced to devote all to remove all obstacles, they can make a person full speed ahead without worry. Therefore, we should maintain a kind of ambition and desire, not to lose them.
2. Do not success look too complex
In fact, success is not so complicated as we look, and sometimes more simple and more likely to succeed - although it sounds a bit weird. Sometimes we should let the mind simple, simple to complex ways of doing things, often receive unexpected results.
3. A man has to be honest and trustworthy
Bacon said: "honesty is the first principle of doing things." Friends , no matter where you are, inexperienced or experienced things change, marshes, you believe that integrity , maintain integrity, commitment to integrity. You can hold the soul of the contract, to win a man's dignity , will eventually achieve something great cause.
4. Believe they can do it
Even if a man do not believe, but also expect others to believe? To believe that they can do it. With a strong self-confident heart of the people, able to withstand a variety of tests, setbacks and failures , this self-confidence make us good enough for a lifetime.
5. Withstood the test of suffering
Suffering is an asset, it will temper the people's will, people get life 's true meaning. Chinese idiom that hard work brings. Another one said, to eat of hardship, square man Exalted. These are encouraging people to withstand the test of suffering, in the face of suffering, when to be patient , to have hope , only to maintain such a state of mind, only to life the glory.
6. Full use of all available resources
Our own resources are limited, but the resources around us is infinite, to be successful people, we must have this idea: from now on, use its own resources, the use of the resources around, using all available resources - To do this is not difficult.
7. Lend a hand, from the little things
In the present competitive era, like all of a sudden fame has become a reality . Big business are often made of a piece by a trivial achievement, we want to lend, not dismissive of the small, down from the little things, in many cases, it is the little things determine our success or failure.
8. Be a person of integrity
The most basic criterion is that a man of integrity. Integrity, is to have responsibility for a sense of telling the truth, do solid work, for anything, they adhere to the principles of both peace of mind. Integrity is a virtue in life, but also a man of a positive attitude. Do an honest person, it will not violate their own conscience, to be worthy of "human" word.
9. How to get to learn to work
Increasing the probability of change and change accelerating today, it is impossible to follow the beaten track progress. Each person must have a willingness to change the mentality in order to keep up with the times. May wish to own a tree, motto - "the same barrier, a change to pass."
10. Decision to dare to do things
In general, a person to do things before the first decision, whether the decision will dare to directly determine victory or defeat. When in distress to calm and analysis, decision courage, do not hesitate, even more importantly, after the decision to get down to do it.
11. Failure as a stepping stone to success
We are not afraid to fail, there must be "keep on fighting," the spirit of the failure as a stepping stone to success, when you defeat more for a long time, you will be successful from getting closer. Of course, you must have sufficient ability to resist failure, and continue to go to work ahead.
12. To leave room for everything
A person in order to survive and develop well, we should do "Jiaotusanku", everything should leave room for himself. We must have this sense: when we choose a path, we should also prepare for their second road, a third way.
13. Learn to choose, know how to give up
A person to learn to give up, give up you do not want to do; a person to learn to choose, choose you like and do good things. As long as you are on the road in your life, find the coordinates of your life, you will be able to give full play to their wisdom, to reach the other side of success.
14. The one thing stick with it
Do any one thing, have beginnings and ends, insisted it done. Do not give up, if you give up, you will never be successful. If the setbacks, you have to repeatedly tell myself: this thing stick with it.
15. Give yourself a little courage
A lot of things on the surface it seems very difficult to complete, in fact very simple, as long as we take a little courage to try, they tend to receive unexpected results. Each of us has the courage, which is used up our own wealth, to know how to reasonably use, otherwise wasted.
16. The face of competition to make himself stronger
Competition is a common phenomenon, no escape , one can not exist from the competition. In the face of challenges, in addition to maintain good sports: the state, but also to focus on personality, in terms of knowledge, in wisdom, in strength to redouble their growth , become more mature , more powerful, can defeat opponents.
The defect into forward momentum
17. Rely on their own solve the problem
Do not always rely on others to have all our hopes on others, but to rely on their own solve the problem, because everyone there are many things to do, he just can maximize the potential to help us, help may be only temporary, but others can not help I know. Therefore, reliance is had, most people can only rely on your own.
18. To say "no" to say "no"
How to get to learn to say no, to say "no" to say "no", which is to rightfully protect themselves, but also a principle of doing things. Do not hesitate and have the courage to say "no" to cleverly put "no" to speak out, otherwise, by the damage will be your own.
19. Willing to accept other people's objections
We often encounter people of opposing views, but willing to accept opposing views, not many people that we need to put right state of mind. In fact, the objections of others more or less some truth, for the proper objection, we should embrace, for the wrong objection, we do not need to vehemently refute. Learn to accept the objection, can we become outstanding.
20. Continue to motivate and shape their own
Everyone can not always be full of passion and fighting spirit, so we need to constantly motivate yourself to keep the passion and fighting spirit. Do not attempt to live in someone else's motivation, the self-motivation is the most effective incentives. No one can really change you, only you can change yourself.
21. The defect into forward momentum
There are shortcomings and even our own physical defects is not terrible, terrible is that we become passive, or even give up. In the defect before us, we have to maintain a positive attitude, the regret into our struggle for power, the only way we can determine its own destiny .
22. Work is work, life is life
Pursuit of the perfect life is the innate human need to focus only on career success, job loss of life, is life defect. Work is work, life is life, do not lose their lives to work. We should do a good job at the same time, do not overlook life.
23. Early elimination of emotional disgust post
You are tired of your current job? I think most of the answer is yes. Tired of feeling that we have lost staff to work fun, but also seriously affect our work and life, we should eliminate it as soon as possible. To eliminate the post of disgust emotions, it is necessary to maintain a good working attitude, learn to love their job, reasonable arrangements for work and life, in order to retrieve an otherwise full of passion and vitality of their own.
24. Learn to work decompression
Working pressure is usually everyone but the advent of a serious problem. Too much pressure will not only crowd out happy , but also related to personal career development, health, family harmony, and many other elements of life. Therefore, we must work to have a correct understanding of stress and learn to their work decompression, and only let themselves out of work pressure, we will live easily.
25. Happy at work is to maintain
Want to work boring or full of joy? I am afraid no one would choose the former. In fact, work is work, it can never be the same as the resort is full of novelty and joy , in which the key is how you find and create joy. As long as you really look for, and happiness will come.
26. Open your mind
No matter what, just surprising to winning, which is a superior work attitude. Surprising is that other people do not want to think, do other people do not do it, the only way you can in the competition. But to surprisingly, it is necessary to open the closed minds, and perhaps a new innovative, it is possible to improve our work performance, change our lives.
27. With the patience to wait for success
Success often depends on each individual's success and failure of attitude . As the old man said: The road to success, you do not have the patience to wait for the arrival of success, then you had the patience to face with life failure. In other words, success only favors the patient man.
28. Studious will be successful
Brilliant, witty clever, heroic courage of a person important condition for a successful career, but these are not the most important and most important is that we must studious. Studious to have help in the field, live and learn and overcome difficulties in the spirit, will really have achieved, learned to use.
29. We need a spirit of adventure
The phrase "seek wealth and risk", these words makes sense. Although we do not agree blindly adventure, but we really do need a spirit of adventure. Because complacent, lazy never move forward, because the opportunity for success are often the most popular adventurous people.
30. Do not blindly imitate others
You can imitate others, but not blindly to imitate. Do not live in someone else's shadow, you are you, other than a replica. Great strides forward, leaving their own footprints to be able to live out the true you.
31. Good at creating and seizing opportunities
Opportunities for people who wants to succeed is the most valuable, the opportunity will patronize everyone, missed opportunities, and then talented people will be buried life. A person will not always face the opportunities, which need to rely on your own to create opportunities. You know, to seize and create opportunities, you must pay the actual action.
32. Do not be intimidated by setbacks
Everyone's life will encounter many setbacks or small or large, which no one could be avoided. In the face of setbacks, we should not be intimidated, should face the frustration of it as a test of our success, strong and continue to go on, frustration will be your stepping stone.
Tolerance is a high level of life
33. Maintain a creative thinking
Innovative thinking is a positive attitude, who has become a major event where innovative thinking beyond the ordinary. In the face of brutal competition, innovative thinking will give the parties to bring vigor and vitality. There is no doubt that we have to maintain a creative thinking, new ideas to break the convention with the concept, beyond their past, to be invincible.
34. Objective treatment of the cause of the "bottleneck" period
Everyone will experience the cause of the "Bottle King" period, at this time, not upset, do not despair disappointment , not to give up on themselves when the cause of stagnation, not outstanding vitality, or should rethink their choice.
35. And maintain mental health concerns
Mental health is an important part of mental unhealthy if a person will have a mental illness. Mental illness can lead to many diseases and can increase some of the diseases will seriously affect our health. Therefore, we must pay attention and maintain mental health, to do this, the most important is to have a positive and uplifting positive attitude.
36. Do in order to face the living death
Face can not do, can not be. We must on this issue have a correct understanding. Otherwise, thought to be the face, and in fact is often lost face, losing face may be a small matter, but in order to save face if it is not worth living death.
37. Treat yourself, love yourself
Others may let you down, but you can not let our. For their own good, cherish yourself, love yourself, is a basic requirement, is also responsible for their own performance. Every living person in this world, no matter when, no matter what happens to be kind to yourself.
38. Do not waste valuable time
We spend much money can not buy the moment, there is nothing in this world more precious than time. We can not retain the time, but we can cherish the time. To cherish the time, the most important thing is to rational and effective use of time. We should cherish the time this concept deeply rooted in my heart, do not waste each day.
39. Change their use of self-suggestion
Do not let the negative control of their self-suggestion, use positive self-suggestion to change yourself. The positive self-suggestion for repeated practice, you can let us use some of the more positive ideas and concepts to replace our old past, negative thinking, which is a positive frame of mind, in short is a change the mentality of the method.
40. A man should dare to express themselves
Peers is that people consciously to others to show their talents, knowledge, achievement of desire. For us, the desire to enhance their positive performance of the Endeavor is a pro-people's intrinsic motivation. Who owns it, who will gain more opportunities to develop their own, so close to the other side of success.
41. Courage others to recommend their
There are many opportunities in life is to rely on themselves to fight. If you have the ability, you should volunteered to go to that many people can not be competent for the task, you can just show you volunteered there, your chances of success will also be greatly increased.
42. Do not have "underappreciated" in a sense
The reason why "underappreciated", mostly by self-inflicted. Do not have "underappreciated," the feeling , because it will become a psychological burden on you, seriously affect your normal state of mind. Therefore, we must in earnest to do his own thing, even if really is a waste of talent, it should be happy.
43. Immediate action
Immediate action, do not have any delays. All the world to know that the plan will not help you succeed, in order to achieve the ideal , you have to hurry up. The road to success has a thousand, but each successful action is necessary to pay, the action is a shortcut to success.
44. Do not let your hesitation imprisoned
In today's world, full of opportunities, but opportunities are disappearing off the vertical, if given the opportunity, they should grasp, we must decisively, to act boldly, not hesitant, otherwise You will be forever standing there watching someone else succeed.
45. Should be thrifty whenever
Extravagance is a shameful act, thrift is a virtue. Whenever we have to practice thrift, when thrift poor, but also to the rich when the thrift. Only then can we hold the rich, and will be more rich.
46. Control their emotions
Some people come as long as the emotional one, they refused to take anything, what would all say, nothing daring, this is very dangerous. There is a saying: "God to destroy a person, we must first make him mad." We have to control their emotions, to do the masters of mood, and not become emotional slaves.
47. Tolerance is a high level of life
Tolerance, is how to get a positive attitude, is the familiar virtues. To be tolerant of your relatives and friends, your rivals and enemies of tolerance, which is essential at all times and the mentality of those great things. Of course, we must know that tolerance is by no means tolerate and connive, be sure to grasp the scale of tolerance and connivance, and sense of propriety - for some people not too tolerant.
48. Do not complain this complain that
Life, we often hear some grumbling. Told us many things in life: people who can not only complain about things to do well. There are also some people, even though life is very unfair to treat them, but they do not complain that this complaint, but to someone else to complain about the time in hard work, the results, they will get impressive results.
Up to make yourself happy
49. Always keep a warm heart
Without a warm heart, No matter what will not be successfully completed. Enthusiasm is a good interpersonal attitude, but also a huge potential to stimulate their own power. In the life and work, to a warm heart towards all, tend to produce a miracle.
50. Success depends on the solidarity and cooperation
"A fence three piles, one heads are better", in order to accomplish something big, we must rely on our joint efforts. In the present competitive environment, a hard world alone is unrealistic, we must have the spirit of unity and cooperation with others, to be able to play a central advantage in career success.
51. Shut out of fear
Everyone will have a variety of fears, these fears are not only a psychological shadow, more importantly, it will hinder your actions. How to overcome fear? The most effective way: to shut out the fear. Or, to be brave in taking practical steps.
52. Set to give their target
Our life is not no goal, no goal in life is like the head did not fly. To establish their own goals, make every effort toward the goal, the reason why successful people succeed because they are able to do this. The greater a person's goals, achievements are often greater. Set himself a big target, but also to set some small goals, one by one when a small target is attained, the goals will be achieved.
53. Full of hope alive
A person who they have no hope, just like a zombie, there is no life at all. We should keep a hope in their hearts, live in hope, we will maintain morale in times of hardship, will live unrestrained.
54. Up to make yourself happy
We need most is to be happy, a happy person is full of happiness for. Since we like happiness, we should make up their own happiness, the key is to have a happy state of mind, with the happy state of mind, happiness will not go elsewhere, it can only stay with us.
55. To maintain a positive attitude
Optimists see anything optimistic, no matter where, will be welcomed by others, and, success and health will accompany him. Pessimistic people are just the opposite. We have to keep a positive attitude, be a positive person, our lives will shine.
56. Do not let too tired to live his life
A person's life that it is very long, but in fact it was too soon. Compared with the whole of history, it is fleeting and ephemeral moment. Therefore, we should forget the unhappy, can not look for trouble , not to let their "Huode Lei."
57. Get affordable, let
Each of us has a lot of "baby", but what you can not have been, at some point we must learn to get affordable, let go. Afford to take courage, let go is magnanimous, is starting to get valuable, put it down is to transcend. The greatest respect is to get affordable, life is the greatest comfort let go.
58. Should exercise patience when dealing with others
As the old saying goes, "resolute into gold," Confucius once said, "small leak will sink a great ship", which shows patience for ourselves how important it is. Whether colleagues or neighbors, whether between friends or between husband and wife, are the need for mutual tolerance, personal behavior is a necessary state of mind.
59. A man to harbor Thanksgiving
Because alive, so be grateful. Thanksgiving is a tolerant and open-minded, is a great sentiment. Everything in the world worthy of our gratitude, we will live more beautiful .
60. No need to get angry
Anger will be a waste of time, it will hurt others, it will hurt themselves, but also cause serious tragedies. In fact, think about it, anger is really not worth it, no good to ourselves in person. The short life so beautiful, we really do not need to get angry.
61. Do not own sorry
Our way of doing things when problems arise, the vast majority of our own reasons. Whether a man or to do things, to be flexible, do not make life difficult for themselves, especially not with their sorry, this is a manifestation of their own responsibility.
62. To be diligent, not lazy
We look at those careers, and both are diligent hard work, and laziness is the greatest enemy of success. In today's society , an attempt something for nothing is impossible and unrealistic. For us to diligently do not be lazy, just as important as not fail to be successful.
63. To develop good savings habits
If no savings, many of our plans will be meaningless. Opportunities exist in various locations, but only available to those in the hands of people who have the money, or those who have to develop savings habits, and who know how to use the money. We must cultivate the good habit of saving, not only is the work of the capital, is a virtue.
64. Learned to accept and treat
Whether we are willing to acknowledge lessons learned are objective, who can not find the lesson is in fact avoid conflict. Lesson is the frustration with the failure of rational thinking, is a valuable asset in life, we must accept the lesson, treat lessons. Although the experience can help you find one, but the lessons it can make you good enough for a lifetime.
65. To praise someone else
You know, everyone likes praise from others. As long as the appropriate and timely praise, not only can eliminate the barriers between people and enhance mutual affection, more importantly, make you popular in the communication field. Remember: Do not begrudge you praise, praise to give a timely manner to others.
66. Do not care about is getting old
Most people are afraid of getting older, but also afraid of old people say that they, in fact, this need. One can always change slowly change the fact that we should frankly face, and slowly change from the old to find fun, and only getting older, we can slowly enjoy life.
2. Do not success look too complex
In fact, success is not so complicated as we look, and sometimes more simple and more likely to succeed - although it sounds a bit weird. Sometimes we should let the mind simple, simple to complex ways of doing things, often receive unexpected results.
3. A man has to be honest and trustworthy
Bacon said: "honesty is the first principle of doing things." Friends , no matter where you are, inexperienced or experienced things change, marshes, you believe that integrity , maintain integrity, commitment to integrity. You can hold the soul of the contract, to win a man's dignity , will eventually achieve something great cause.
4. Believe they can do it
Even if a man do not believe, but also expect others to believe? To believe that they can do it. With a strong self-confident heart of the people, able to withstand a variety of tests, setbacks and failures , this self-confidence make us good enough for a lifetime.
5. Withstood the test of suffering
Suffering is an asset, it will temper the people's will, people get life 's true meaning. Chinese idiom that hard work brings. Another one said, to eat of hardship, square man Exalted. These are encouraging people to withstand the test of suffering, in the face of suffering, when to be patient , to have hope , only to maintain such a state of mind, only to life the glory.
6. Full use of all available resources
Our own resources are limited, but the resources around us is infinite, to be successful people, we must have this idea: from now on, use its own resources, the use of the resources around, using all available resources - To do this is not difficult.
7. Lend a hand, from the little things
In the present competitive era, like all of a sudden fame has become a reality . Big business are often made of a piece by a trivial achievement, we want to lend, not dismissive of the small, down from the little things, in many cases, it is the little things determine our success or failure.
8. Be a person of integrity
The most basic criterion is that a man of integrity. Integrity, is to have responsibility for a sense of telling the truth, do solid work, for anything, they adhere to the principles of both peace of mind. Integrity is a virtue in life, but also a man of a positive attitude. Do an honest person, it will not violate their own conscience, to be worthy of "human" word.
9. How to get to learn to work
Increasing the probability of change and change accelerating today, it is impossible to follow the beaten track progress. Each person must have a willingness to change the mentality in order to keep up with the times. May wish to own a tree, motto - "the same barrier, a change to pass."
10. Decision to dare to do things
In general, a person to do things before the first decision, whether the decision will dare to directly determine victory or defeat. When in distress to calm and analysis, decision courage, do not hesitate, even more importantly, after the decision to get down to do it.
11. Failure as a stepping stone to success
We are not afraid to fail, there must be "keep on fighting," the spirit of the failure as a stepping stone to success, when you defeat more for a long time, you will be successful from getting closer. Of course, you must have sufficient ability to resist failure, and continue to go to work ahead.
12. To leave room for everything
A person in order to survive and develop well, we should do "Jiaotusanku", everything should leave room for himself. We must have this sense: when we choose a path, we should also prepare for their second road, a third way.
13. Learn to choose, know how to give up
A person to learn to give up, give up you do not want to do; a person to learn to choose, choose you like and do good things. As long as you are on the road in your life, find the coordinates of your life, you will be able to give full play to their wisdom, to reach the other side of success.
14. The one thing stick with it
Do any one thing, have beginnings and ends, insisted it done. Do not give up, if you give up, you will never be successful. If the setbacks, you have to repeatedly tell myself: this thing stick with it.
15. Give yourself a little courage
A lot of things on the surface it seems very difficult to complete, in fact very simple, as long as we take a little courage to try, they tend to receive unexpected results. Each of us has the courage, which is used up our own wealth, to know how to reasonably use, otherwise wasted.
16. The face of competition to make himself stronger
Competition is a common phenomenon, no escape , one can not exist from the competition. In the face of challenges, in addition to maintain good sports: the state, but also to focus on personality, in terms of knowledge, in wisdom, in strength to redouble their growth , become more mature , more powerful, can defeat opponents.
The defect into forward momentum
17. Rely on their own solve the problem
Do not always rely on others to have all our hopes on others, but to rely on their own solve the problem, because everyone there are many things to do, he just can maximize the potential to help us, help may be only temporary, but others can not help I know. Therefore, reliance is had, most people can only rely on your own.
18. To say "no" to say "no"
How to get to learn to say no, to say "no" to say "no", which is to rightfully protect themselves, but also a principle of doing things. Do not hesitate and have the courage to say "no" to cleverly put "no" to speak out, otherwise, by the damage will be your own.
19. Willing to accept other people's objections
We often encounter people of opposing views, but willing to accept opposing views, not many people that we need to put right state of mind. In fact, the objections of others more or less some truth, for the proper objection, we should embrace, for the wrong objection, we do not need to vehemently refute. Learn to accept the objection, can we become outstanding.
20. Continue to motivate and shape their own
Everyone can not always be full of passion and fighting spirit, so we need to constantly motivate yourself to keep the passion and fighting spirit. Do not attempt to live in someone else's motivation, the self-motivation is the most effective incentives. No one can really change you, only you can change yourself.
21. The defect into forward momentum
There are shortcomings and even our own physical defects is not terrible, terrible is that we become passive, or even give up. In the defect before us, we have to maintain a positive attitude, the regret into our struggle for power, the only way we can determine its own destiny .
22. Work is work, life is life
Pursuit of the perfect life is the innate human need to focus only on career success, job loss of life, is life defect. Work is work, life is life, do not lose their lives to work. We should do a good job at the same time, do not overlook life.
23. Early elimination of emotional disgust post
You are tired of your current job? I think most of the answer is yes. Tired of feeling that we have lost staff to work fun, but also seriously affect our work and life, we should eliminate it as soon as possible. To eliminate the post of disgust emotions, it is necessary to maintain a good working attitude, learn to love their job, reasonable arrangements for work and life, in order to retrieve an otherwise full of passion and vitality of their own.
24. Learn to work decompression
Working pressure is usually everyone but the advent of a serious problem. Too much pressure will not only crowd out happy , but also related to personal career development, health, family harmony, and many other elements of life. Therefore, we must work to have a correct understanding of stress and learn to their work decompression, and only let themselves out of work pressure, we will live easily.
25. Happy at work is to maintain
Want to work boring or full of joy? I am afraid no one would choose the former. In fact, work is work, it can never be the same as the resort is full of novelty and joy , in which the key is how you find and create joy. As long as you really look for, and happiness will come.
26. Open your mind
No matter what, just surprising to winning, which is a superior work attitude. Surprising is that other people do not want to think, do other people do not do it, the only way you can in the competition. But to surprisingly, it is necessary to open the closed minds, and perhaps a new innovative, it is possible to improve our work performance, change our lives.
27. With the patience to wait for success
Success often depends on each individual's success and failure of attitude . As the old man said: The road to success, you do not have the patience to wait for the arrival of success, then you had the patience to face with life failure. In other words, success only favors the patient man.
28. Studious will be successful
Brilliant, witty clever, heroic courage of a person important condition for a successful career, but these are not the most important and most important is that we must studious. Studious to have help in the field, live and learn and overcome difficulties in the spirit, will really have achieved, learned to use.
29. We need a spirit of adventure
The phrase "seek wealth and risk", these words makes sense. Although we do not agree blindly adventure, but we really do need a spirit of adventure. Because complacent, lazy never move forward, because the opportunity for success are often the most popular adventurous people.
30. Do not blindly imitate others
You can imitate others, but not blindly to imitate. Do not live in someone else's shadow, you are you, other than a replica. Great strides forward, leaving their own footprints to be able to live out the true you.
31. Good at creating and seizing opportunities
Opportunities for people who wants to succeed is the most valuable, the opportunity will patronize everyone, missed opportunities, and then talented people will be buried life. A person will not always face the opportunities, which need to rely on your own to create opportunities. You know, to seize and create opportunities, you must pay the actual action.
32. Do not be intimidated by setbacks
Everyone's life will encounter many setbacks or small or large, which no one could be avoided. In the face of setbacks, we should not be intimidated, should face the frustration of it as a test of our success, strong and continue to go on, frustration will be your stepping stone.
Tolerance is a high level of life
33. Maintain a creative thinking
Innovative thinking is a positive attitude, who has become a major event where innovative thinking beyond the ordinary. In the face of brutal competition, innovative thinking will give the parties to bring vigor and vitality. There is no doubt that we have to maintain a creative thinking, new ideas to break the convention with the concept, beyond their past, to be invincible.
34. Objective treatment of the cause of the "bottleneck" period
Everyone will experience the cause of the "Bottle King" period, at this time, not upset, do not despair disappointment , not to give up on themselves when the cause of stagnation, not outstanding vitality, or should rethink their choice.
35. And maintain mental health concerns
Mental health is an important part of mental unhealthy if a person will have a mental illness. Mental illness can lead to many diseases and can increase some of the diseases will seriously affect our health. Therefore, we must pay attention and maintain mental health, to do this, the most important is to have a positive and uplifting positive attitude.
36. Do in order to face the living death
Face can not do, can not be. We must on this issue have a correct understanding. Otherwise, thought to be the face, and in fact is often lost face, losing face may be a small matter, but in order to save face if it is not worth living death.
37. Treat yourself, love yourself
Others may let you down, but you can not let our. For their own good, cherish yourself, love yourself, is a basic requirement, is also responsible for their own performance. Every living person in this world, no matter when, no matter what happens to be kind to yourself.
38. Do not waste valuable time
We spend much money can not buy the moment, there is nothing in this world more precious than time. We can not retain the time, but we can cherish the time. To cherish the time, the most important thing is to rational and effective use of time. We should cherish the time this concept deeply rooted in my heart, do not waste each day.
39. Change their use of self-suggestion
Do not let the negative control of their self-suggestion, use positive self-suggestion to change yourself. The positive self-suggestion for repeated practice, you can let us use some of the more positive ideas and concepts to replace our old past, negative thinking, which is a positive frame of mind, in short is a change the mentality of the method.
40. A man should dare to express themselves
Peers is that people consciously to others to show their talents, knowledge, achievement of desire. For us, the desire to enhance their positive performance of the Endeavor is a pro-people's intrinsic motivation. Who owns it, who will gain more opportunities to develop their own, so close to the other side of success.
41. Courage others to recommend their
There are many opportunities in life is to rely on themselves to fight. If you have the ability, you should volunteered to go to that many people can not be competent for the task, you can just show you volunteered there, your chances of success will also be greatly increased.
42. Do not have "underappreciated" in a sense
The reason why "underappreciated", mostly by self-inflicted. Do not have "underappreciated," the feeling , because it will become a psychological burden on you, seriously affect your normal state of mind. Therefore, we must in earnest to do his own thing, even if really is a waste of talent, it should be happy.
43. Immediate action
Immediate action, do not have any delays. All the world to know that the plan will not help you succeed, in order to achieve the ideal , you have to hurry up. The road to success has a thousand, but each successful action is necessary to pay, the action is a shortcut to success.
44. Do not let your hesitation imprisoned
In today's world, full of opportunities, but opportunities are disappearing off the vertical, if given the opportunity, they should grasp, we must decisively, to act boldly, not hesitant, otherwise You will be forever standing there watching someone else succeed.
45. Should be thrifty whenever
Extravagance is a shameful act, thrift is a virtue. Whenever we have to practice thrift, when thrift poor, but also to the rich when the thrift. Only then can we hold the rich, and will be more rich.
46. Control their emotions
Some people come as long as the emotional one, they refused to take anything, what would all say, nothing daring, this is very dangerous. There is a saying: "God to destroy a person, we must first make him mad." We have to control their emotions, to do the masters of mood, and not become emotional slaves.
47. Tolerance is a high level of life
Tolerance, is how to get a positive attitude, is the familiar virtues. To be tolerant of your relatives and friends, your rivals and enemies of tolerance, which is essential at all times and the mentality of those great things. Of course, we must know that tolerance is by no means tolerate and connive, be sure to grasp the scale of tolerance and connivance, and sense of propriety - for some people not too tolerant.
48. Do not complain this complain that
Life, we often hear some grumbling. Told us many things in life: people who can not only complain about things to do well. There are also some people, even though life is very unfair to treat them, but they do not complain that this complaint, but to someone else to complain about the time in hard work, the results, they will get impressive results.
Up to make yourself happy
49. Always keep a warm heart
Without a warm heart, No matter what will not be successfully completed. Enthusiasm is a good interpersonal attitude, but also a huge potential to stimulate their own power. In the life and work, to a warm heart towards all, tend to produce a miracle.
50. Success depends on the solidarity and cooperation
"A fence three piles, one heads are better", in order to accomplish something big, we must rely on our joint efforts. In the present competitive environment, a hard world alone is unrealistic, we must have the spirit of unity and cooperation with others, to be able to play a central advantage in career success.
51. Shut out of fear
Everyone will have a variety of fears, these fears are not only a psychological shadow, more importantly, it will hinder your actions. How to overcome fear? The most effective way: to shut out the fear. Or, to be brave in taking practical steps.
52. Set to give their target
Our life is not no goal, no goal in life is like the head did not fly. To establish their own goals, make every effort toward the goal, the reason why successful people succeed because they are able to do this. The greater a person's goals, achievements are often greater. Set himself a big target, but also to set some small goals, one by one when a small target is attained, the goals will be achieved.
53. Full of hope alive
A person who they have no hope, just like a zombie, there is no life at all. We should keep a hope in their hearts, live in hope, we will maintain morale in times of hardship, will live unrestrained.
54. Up to make yourself happy
We need most is to be happy, a happy person is full of happiness for. Since we like happiness, we should make up their own happiness, the key is to have a happy state of mind, with the happy state of mind, happiness will not go elsewhere, it can only stay with us.
55. To maintain a positive attitude
Optimists see anything optimistic, no matter where, will be welcomed by others, and, success and health will accompany him. Pessimistic people are just the opposite. We have to keep a positive attitude, be a positive person, our lives will shine.
56. Do not let too tired to live his life
A person's life that it is very long, but in fact it was too soon. Compared with the whole of history, it is fleeting and ephemeral moment. Therefore, we should forget the unhappy, can not look for trouble , not to let their "Huode Lei."
57. Get affordable, let
Each of us has a lot of "baby", but what you can not have been, at some point we must learn to get affordable, let go. Afford to take courage, let go is magnanimous, is starting to get valuable, put it down is to transcend. The greatest respect is to get affordable, life is the greatest comfort let go.
58. Should exercise patience when dealing with others
As the old saying goes, "resolute into gold," Confucius once said, "small leak will sink a great ship", which shows patience for ourselves how important it is. Whether colleagues or neighbors, whether between friends or between husband and wife, are the need for mutual tolerance, personal behavior is a necessary state of mind.
59. A man to harbor Thanksgiving
Because alive, so be grateful. Thanksgiving is a tolerant and open-minded, is a great sentiment. Everything in the world worthy of our gratitude, we will live more beautiful .
60. No need to get angry
Anger will be a waste of time, it will hurt others, it will hurt themselves, but also cause serious tragedies. In fact, think about it, anger is really not worth it, no good to ourselves in person. The short life so beautiful, we really do not need to get angry.
61. Do not own sorry
Our way of doing things when problems arise, the vast majority of our own reasons. Whether a man or to do things, to be flexible, do not make life difficult for themselves, especially not with their sorry, this is a manifestation of their own responsibility.
62. To be diligent, not lazy
We look at those careers, and both are diligent hard work, and laziness is the greatest enemy of success. In today's society , an attempt something for nothing is impossible and unrealistic. For us to diligently do not be lazy, just as important as not fail to be successful.
63. To develop good savings habits
If no savings, many of our plans will be meaningless. Opportunities exist in various locations, but only available to those in the hands of people who have the money, or those who have to develop savings habits, and who know how to use the money. We must cultivate the good habit of saving, not only is the work of the capital, is a virtue.
64. Learned to accept and treat
Whether we are willing to acknowledge lessons learned are objective, who can not find the lesson is in fact avoid conflict. Lesson is the frustration with the failure of rational thinking, is a valuable asset in life, we must accept the lesson, treat lessons. Although the experience can help you find one, but the lessons it can make you good enough for a lifetime.
65. To praise someone else
You know, everyone likes praise from others. As long as the appropriate and timely praise, not only can eliminate the barriers between people and enhance mutual affection, more importantly, make you popular in the communication field. Remember: Do not begrudge you praise, praise to give a timely manner to others.
66. Do not care about is getting old
Most people are afraid of getting older, but also afraid of old people say that they, in fact, this need. One can always change slowly change the fact that we should frankly face, and slowly change from the old to find fun, and only getting older, we can slowly enjoy life.
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Fishing in mind
A phone call yesterday, and brother after her husband told me he was going to Azusa Pacific fishing. We are at home without incident, but also to follow. About 30 minutes, we had a line five people came to the town of Yang Zi.
Turn on North Gate Rd, you can see floating in the middle of a pond with many plastic bottles, I quickly asked: "What is this ah?" He said with great disdain: "You do not even know it ah? This is to support Pearl The. "" I know, South Lake, there are many such. "say the car is in our laughter reached its destination.
Here attached a pond a pond, a pond in the opposite has been sitting for two fishermen. Boss from the house for us to find a few chairs. I moved a chair just behind them walked toward the pond. Just a few days before the next heavy rain, the ground was still muddy, I have a foot up, some slightly slippery, I had to slow down, picked up the pace to move forward, believe it if necessary throws. "To fishing, but also wear new shoes!" My husband kept beside ridicule. I have to be outdone, quickly answered: "your fault, not you arranged for me to play mahjong, where I will wear a skirt, wear high heels thing."
Step in a slippery to walk on the ridge two ponds and white, big brother, and her husband stopped to begin wiring test floated. Few of us are idle next to nothing to put in the chair. "Girl, you did not do, to catch a few bait box bait to spread in the pool, give me a nest." Bait box from the side of the pond caught bait back, I accidentally rub up his fishing rod , and he only distressed to blame me, I had into the left ear, right ear out and let him chatter. I know that no matter how I argue, he also never felt I wear high heels to walk in this place hard.
The first tie rod is sister to take root in his hand. She just had rod into the water, his mouth still ask how to see floats, fishing line tied up while her husband heard one side, said: "quick pull, just let go." Sister-in-law quickly pull the rod to the side, Goodfellas, a large bream are on the jump hook himself with it! My sister saw the first battle victory, quickly pick up fishing nets. And other fish into the nets, I put the nets on the shore swinging, and then find a suitable place to net the pond.
Big Brother and her husband soon tied up his own rod, each finding a place to make fishing rod into the water. Big Brother has just launched the rod, sister-in-law of the rod and the fish, and I quickly ran over to help Yi children, three of us a pass rush, and finally the fish into the nets. Big Brother on the side said: "Today I had become friends working for you, just to give you a string of earthworms were friends."
Sister watching another fish in a fish and fetched my husband said: "You go play to tie a fishing rod to me." Rod into the hands of her husband handed to me, I took the rod onto the jade plate . Jade standing water board, I feel a little dizzy, my head with water ripples circle around turn away. Deterred from my eyes in the water for a long time only to find the floats, a gust of wind blowing, floats in the waterlines in the circle and I Zhuoqi a dodge, but also omitted. I was looking for floats narrowed his eyes when her husband heard a loud cry: "fast pull!" And sister while I pull the rod up, I saw a big sister has something to do bream, on my hook empty. Before I put the rod back into the water, her husband said: "You took the play to the root pole to the side you wear high heels in this unsafe, Mo gone out of the water."
I took the rod and found a place where no one bothered to start up a pole. No matter what kind of position I put fishing line, floats on the water is always horizontal, can not be erected in the water. According to his instructions, I pulled down the floats, but floats are still lying in the water. Sister in law school I took the rod look forward throw. It is clear that the effect of throwing, floats to well water, I moved his fishing rod, always felt something was amiss, but I can not say do not know where. Etc. Again, I raised high when the fishing rod, fishing rod finally found the fish is simply not on the line. In my Yijingyizha in, we all laugh, even next to the fishermen do not know also followed laughed. I quickly took the rod toward the brother came here, people are fishing, drift fishing only brother in the ... ..
Other brother to help me tie the fishing line, I saw the sister he moved to another pond, we walked back down where sister just fishing rod. From time to time to see the person next to fish bait, big brothers and I did so what happened, I would like a fishing rod into the tank, motionless. Move! Move! Float down the move! I quickly pull, the hands of a little weight, there are fish! I quickly pull back the rod, the fish coming on shore, I changed hands, took the opportunity to fish off the hook, back to the water.
Station for a long time, Detoxification, and legs, and vertigo, and a fish did not catch up. Hey, I am going to dress up too for fishing. I give the rod Yi children, sitting in a chair waiting to help them take the fish to help them throw the fish into nets.
While the sound of water rushing in behind me playing, I looked around and found her husband's hook a fish, and know from the constant churn of the water droplets is relatively large fish. I saw the curvature of the growing rod, her husband has to go back to the board from the shore of jade, I quickly jump, pull a chair, make a party for his children to stroll to the fish. Fish and will be east for a west shore for a husband in the south, for a north, it is saying call on the strength. I see a rod in the side of the almost full moon, not just a little worried. We see that full moon like the fishing rod, also came here to see the uniform. Arms fail to beat the thigh, the fish linger, but her husband. Fish swimming speed gradually slow, the pace is gentle husband, and gradually pulling the fish to the shore. A large grass surface, ashore. I saw deep into two hooks a fish head, a tangle of fish, I quickly went to the fishing gear bag to find the little hooks that take the fork to help hook the fish's mouth goes to take down.
Busy for a while, pond side quiet. We all laugh and said: "At noon, the fish also went to a restaurant." Looked at the fish nets, big brother, come to the pole so close.
Anabaena hands full in the autumn, accompanied by, the more flying away, a burst of laughter in the autumn, accompanied by, the more flying away.
Turn on North Gate Rd, you can see floating in the middle of a pond with many plastic bottles, I quickly asked: "What is this ah?" He said with great disdain: "You do not even know it ah? This is to support Pearl The. "" I know, South Lake, there are many such. "say the car is in our laughter reached its destination.
Here attached a pond a pond, a pond in the opposite has been sitting for two fishermen. Boss from the house for us to find a few chairs. I moved a chair just behind them walked toward the pond. Just a few days before the next heavy rain, the ground was still muddy, I have a foot up, some slightly slippery, I had to slow down, picked up the pace to move forward, believe it if necessary throws. "To fishing, but also wear new shoes!" My husband kept beside ridicule. I have to be outdone, quickly answered: "your fault, not you arranged for me to play mahjong, where I will wear a skirt, wear high heels thing."
Step in a slippery to walk on the ridge two ponds and white, big brother, and her husband stopped to begin wiring test floated. Few of us are idle next to nothing to put in the chair. "Girl, you did not do, to catch a few bait box bait to spread in the pool, give me a nest." Bait box from the side of the pond caught bait back, I accidentally rub up his fishing rod , and he only distressed to blame me, I had into the left ear, right ear out and let him chatter. I know that no matter how I argue, he also never felt I wear high heels to walk in this place hard.
The first tie rod is sister to take root in his hand. She just had rod into the water, his mouth still ask how to see floats, fishing line tied up while her husband heard one side, said: "quick pull, just let go." Sister-in-law quickly pull the rod to the side, Goodfellas, a large bream are on the jump hook himself with it! My sister saw the first battle victory, quickly pick up fishing nets. And other fish into the nets, I put the nets on the shore swinging, and then find a suitable place to net the pond.
Big Brother and her husband soon tied up his own rod, each finding a place to make fishing rod into the water. Big Brother has just launched the rod, sister-in-law of the rod and the fish, and I quickly ran over to help Yi children, three of us a pass rush, and finally the fish into the nets. Big Brother on the side said: "Today I had become friends working for you, just to give you a string of earthworms were friends."
Sister watching another fish in a fish and fetched my husband said: "You go play to tie a fishing rod to me." Rod into the hands of her husband handed to me, I took the rod onto the jade plate . Jade standing water board, I feel a little dizzy, my head with water ripples circle around turn away. Deterred from my eyes in the water for a long time only to find the floats, a gust of wind blowing, floats in the waterlines in the circle and I Zhuoqi a dodge, but also omitted. I was looking for floats narrowed his eyes when her husband heard a loud cry: "fast pull!" And sister while I pull the rod up, I saw a big sister has something to do bream, on my hook empty. Before I put the rod back into the water, her husband said: "You took the play to the root pole to the side you wear high heels in this unsafe, Mo gone out of the water."
I took the rod and found a place where no one bothered to start up a pole. No matter what kind of position I put fishing line, floats on the water is always horizontal, can not be erected in the water. According to his instructions, I pulled down the floats, but floats are still lying in the water. Sister in law school I took the rod look forward throw. It is clear that the effect of throwing, floats to well water, I moved his fishing rod, always felt something was amiss, but I can not say do not know where. Etc. Again, I raised high when the fishing rod, fishing rod finally found the fish is simply not on the line. In my Yijingyizha in, we all laugh, even next to the fishermen do not know also followed laughed. I quickly took the rod toward the brother came here, people are fishing, drift fishing only brother in the ... ..
Other brother to help me tie the fishing line, I saw the sister he moved to another pond, we walked back down where sister just fishing rod. From time to time to see the person next to fish bait, big brothers and I did so what happened, I would like a fishing rod into the tank, motionless. Move! Move! Float down the move! I quickly pull, the hands of a little weight, there are fish! I quickly pull back the rod, the fish coming on shore, I changed hands, took the opportunity to fish off the hook, back to the water.
Station for a long time, Detoxification, and legs, and vertigo, and a fish did not catch up. Hey, I am going to dress up too for fishing. I give the rod Yi children, sitting in a chair waiting to help them take the fish to help them throw the fish into nets.
While the sound of water rushing in behind me playing, I looked around and found her husband's hook a fish, and know from the constant churn of the water droplets is relatively large fish. I saw the curvature of the growing rod, her husband has to go back to the board from the shore of jade, I quickly jump, pull a chair, make a party for his children to stroll to the fish. Fish and will be east for a west shore for a husband in the south, for a north, it is saying call on the strength. I see a rod in the side of the almost full moon, not just a little worried. We see that full moon like the fishing rod, also came here to see the uniform. Arms fail to beat the thigh, the fish linger, but her husband. Fish swimming speed gradually slow, the pace is gentle husband, and gradually pulling the fish to the shore. A large grass surface, ashore. I saw deep into two hooks a fish head, a tangle of fish, I quickly went to the fishing gear bag to find the little hooks that take the fork to help hook the fish's mouth goes to take down.
Busy for a while, pond side quiet. We all laugh and said: "At noon, the fish also went to a restaurant." Looked at the fish nets, big brother, come to the pole so close.
Anabaena hands full in the autumn, accompanied by, the more flying away, a burst of laughter in the autumn, accompanied by, the more flying away.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Smiling is a training
Life is not owed us anything, so there is no need to always bitter face. Cope with life full of gratitude, at least, it gives us life, gave us survive.
Smile is an attitude of life, with wealth, status, circumstances are not necessarily linked. A rich man may be worried all day, while a poor may feel happy: a calm optimism may be disabled; a smooth situation may be one person, one who could meet adversity with a smile ... ...
A person's mood affected by the environment, this is quite normal, but you bitter face, a look Kudachoushen of the situation would not have any change, on the contrary, if a smile to life, that would increased affinity, others more willing to contact with you, will get more opportunities.
Only people who feel a sun to feel the reality of the sun, if you even have often suffered a straight face, that how good life? Life is always a mirror shine is our image, when we cry when life is crying, when we smile, life is also smiling.
Smile from the heart, reasonable manner, neither the weak fool, nor is the strong form of flattery. Flatter when the smile is a fake smile, and the mask will not last long, if given the chance, they will be lowered mask, revealing the original features.
Smile no purpose, whether it is the boss, or the guard, that same smile, a smile is respect for others, is also the respect for life. A smile is a "return", said physics relationships as the balance of forces, how do you others, how others will for you, you smile more than others, others will be more to your smile and more.
Misinterpreted by others in, you can choose rage, you can also choose a smile, often smiling strength will be greater, because the smile would shock each other's hearts, exposed open-minded tolerance for each other feel small, ugly.
Qingzheziqing, muddy those from the cloud. Sometimes too much to explain, dispute is not necessary. For those who deliberately provocative, deliberately discredit the person, give him a smile, let the rest of the time to do that better.
Year, it was everywhere that Einstein's theory was wrong, and that there one hundred scientists from testifying, Einstein knew this, but faint smile, said, one hundred? To so many people? If they can prove I'm really wrong, a person will come forward line.
Einstein's theory has undergone the test of time, and those people keep a smile defeated.
Smile from the heart, not camouflage. Maintain the "smile" attitude, life will be better. Setbacks and failures in life, there is misunderstanding, it is quite normal, in order to live in one smooth, the first step should remove barriers to heart. Real love is smile, know how to love, will not be mediocre.
A smile is the best card in life, who do not want people with an optimistic friends do? Give yourself a confident smile, but also give people a confidence in order to better stimulate the potential.
A smile is the best language between friends, a spontaneous smile worth a thousand words, whether it is first met Ye Hao, Ye Hao met a long time, a smile can narrow the distance between people, other times between a sense of warmth.
Smiling is a self-cultivation, and is a very important accomplishment, the real smile is warm, encouraging, is warm. People who really know how to smile, always easy to get more opportunities than others, always easy to be successful.
Smile is an attitude of life, with wealth, status, circumstances are not necessarily linked. A rich man may be worried all day, while a poor may feel happy: a calm optimism may be disabled; a smooth situation may be one person, one who could meet adversity with a smile ... ...
A person's mood affected by the environment, this is quite normal, but you bitter face, a look Kudachoushen of the situation would not have any change, on the contrary, if a smile to life, that would increased affinity, others more willing to contact with you, will get more opportunities.
Only people who feel a sun to feel the reality of the sun, if you even have often suffered a straight face, that how good life? Life is always a mirror shine is our image, when we cry when life is crying, when we smile, life is also smiling.
Smile from the heart, reasonable manner, neither the weak fool, nor is the strong form of flattery. Flatter when the smile is a fake smile, and the mask will not last long, if given the chance, they will be lowered mask, revealing the original features.
Smile no purpose, whether it is the boss, or the guard, that same smile, a smile is respect for others, is also the respect for life. A smile is a "return", said physics relationships as the balance of forces, how do you others, how others will for you, you smile more than others, others will be more to your smile and more.
Misinterpreted by others in, you can choose rage, you can also choose a smile, often smiling strength will be greater, because the smile would shock each other's hearts, exposed open-minded tolerance for each other feel small, ugly.
Qingzheziqing, muddy those from the cloud. Sometimes too much to explain, dispute is not necessary. For those who deliberately provocative, deliberately discredit the person, give him a smile, let the rest of the time to do that better.
Year, it was everywhere that Einstein's theory was wrong, and that there one hundred scientists from testifying, Einstein knew this, but faint smile, said, one hundred? To so many people? If they can prove I'm really wrong, a person will come forward line.
Einstein's theory has undergone the test of time, and those people keep a smile defeated.
Smile from the heart, not camouflage. Maintain the "smile" attitude, life will be better. Setbacks and failures in life, there is misunderstanding, it is quite normal, in order to live in one smooth, the first step should remove barriers to heart. Real love is smile, know how to love, will not be mediocre.
A smile is the best card in life, who do not want people with an optimistic friends do? Give yourself a confident smile, but also give people a confidence in order to better stimulate the potential.
A smile is the best language between friends, a spontaneous smile worth a thousand words, whether it is first met Ye Hao, Ye Hao met a long time, a smile can narrow the distance between people, other times between a sense of warmth.
Smiling is a self-cultivation, and is a very important accomplishment, the real smile is warm, encouraging, is warm. People who really know how to smile, always easy to get more opportunities than others, always easy to be successful.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Dandelion, do not want to fly
"Dandelion, yellow flowers, the flowers off the umbrella to fight. White umbrella, great ability, with God baby friends. Fluttering, floating, Sasa Sa, yellow full Shanwa next year." "Dandelion, yellow flowers ..."
Smoke-filled world, however vaguely ethereal voice came pulling, stretching deep, through my empty soul, my messy thoughts. I am exceedingly strange: "Who's here to sing it?"
Thus, Following the sound. The first is the golden preserved everywhere, greeted by, confused with my eyes. Passing breeze, grass green and yellow against the background of each other, touch each other with, free of any air flying his own dance, with the melody of the song's charm becomes more and more the spirit of spring. In the blue sky, the yellow background canvas, flickering in half a body stuck in a lengthy blowing over. I went over to see, was a little sister. She saw me, panic-stricken, they always turn 180 degrees, quickly rubbed his eyes. After a long, squat down with a small hand will be playing with a dandelion, golden hands full.
I am curious to ask: "girl, you doing it?"
She said: "Sister, why the dandelion to fly it?"
I said: "The laws of nature it! As people grow up, they want to leave home as well."
Sister eclipsed, leaving it face, the body weak swing slightly in the breeze. But people can still see the cracks in her tears as under the eaves of the beads, drop by drop, fall dandelion petals, clear and bright. Then, even with a weak voice said, sobbing: "Mom does not have seven or eight at home, and finally can see my mother this year, but wait until the dandelion flowers, her left hand to help if I block the wind Dandelion, so it does not fly away, the mother will not go. is not it? "little sister happy by the sad turn, stared at me, full of expectation. I repeated the phrase: "Yes, your mother will not take as long as you study hard, grow up, your mother will never go. In fact, dandelion, do not want to fly."
I squat body, stroked dandelion, heart burst of pain and did not really go? Why? I looked at the hands of the dandelion, in this bleak picture, the dandelion, wind, leaving the hands of only a few leaves ... ... knew it, tears have been bombs fell on the fingers, slide dandelion leaves, wet a dry thin veins. From this, I seem to see themselves and those who left before the next tragedy, roots, was long withheld.
Spring in the walk, the cold and taken away, the lonely squandered, leaving only the beauties of springtime.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Helpless to fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because there is no wallow in the warmth of the root, heavy to fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because no one considered the heart and care about it, lonely and fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because before the flight, they need a warm home, even if the home is not home is home.
Dandelion, do not want to fly.
Smoke-filled world, however vaguely ethereal voice came pulling, stretching deep, through my empty soul, my messy thoughts. I am exceedingly strange: "Who's here to sing it?"
Thus, Following the sound. The first is the golden preserved everywhere, greeted by, confused with my eyes. Passing breeze, grass green and yellow against the background of each other, touch each other with, free of any air flying his own dance, with the melody of the song's charm becomes more and more the spirit of spring. In the blue sky, the yellow background canvas, flickering in half a body stuck in a lengthy blowing over. I went over to see, was a little sister. She saw me, panic-stricken, they always turn 180 degrees, quickly rubbed his eyes. After a long, squat down with a small hand will be playing with a dandelion, golden hands full.
I am curious to ask: "girl, you doing it?"
She said: "Sister, why the dandelion to fly it?"
I said: "The laws of nature it! As people grow up, they want to leave home as well."
Sister eclipsed, leaving it face, the body weak swing slightly in the breeze. But people can still see the cracks in her tears as under the eaves of the beads, drop by drop, fall dandelion petals, clear and bright. Then, even with a weak voice said, sobbing: "Mom does not have seven or eight at home, and finally can see my mother this year, but wait until the dandelion flowers, her left hand to help if I block the wind Dandelion, so it does not fly away, the mother will not go. is not it? "little sister happy by the sad turn, stared at me, full of expectation. I repeated the phrase: "Yes, your mother will not take as long as you study hard, grow up, your mother will never go. In fact, dandelion, do not want to fly."
I squat body, stroked dandelion, heart burst of pain and did not really go? Why? I looked at the hands of the dandelion, in this bleak picture, the dandelion, wind, leaving the hands of only a few leaves ... ... knew it, tears have been bombs fell on the fingers, slide dandelion leaves, wet a dry thin veins. From this, I seem to see themselves and those who left before the next tragedy, roots, was long withheld.
Spring in the walk, the cold and taken away, the lonely squandered, leaving only the beauties of springtime.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Helpless to fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because there is no wallow in the warmth of the root, heavy to fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because no one considered the heart and care about it, lonely and fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because before the flight, they need a warm home, even if the home is not home is home.
Dandelion, do not want to fly.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Why women want to get married
Marriage, a woman can do anything for money, do not hesitate to buy anything, want to travel immediately action, and then very proud to tell friends: I am a paycheck to paycheck;After marriage, women have to live frugally, more and more stingy on their own, one has extra money into the banks thought for the well-being of both the accumulation of deposits.
Marriage, a woman can go its own way, laugh out loud burst into tears, did not care for other people look strange, it is the unassuming girl-specific capital;After marriage, women do everything, that every word before going after thinking it over, would like to caution careful, because I do not give Linlixiangqin and laugh at you, and drag you back.
Marriage, a woman can be peace of mind to accept the gift of the opposite sex and concern, but also can afford to sing, accompanied by the opposite sex, shopping, chatting, and even drink;After marriage, women have to avoid as much as possible and cut off from all of the opposite sex, opposite sex friends on the telephone connection will become a kind of guilt, carefully deal with.
Marriage, women can learn, like men, cooking wine Heroes, go home until 2:00 am It is normal;After marriage, a woman can only wait for a man after cooking wine Heroes slowly home, asleep in the waiting.
Marriage, a woman's birthday but also those romantic Tanabata festival, so rose the occasional shiny red eyes, the occasional cake over the body, and occasionally unexpected delivery from the desk received a gift;After marriage, women expect men to remember the important day, a surprise given the world a little better than man-made romantic little thought, please do not let her down, then lost.
Marriage, a woman can makeup, you can also dress gorgeously dressed, and walk ten-inch heels are blatantly attracted the eyes of passers-by;Married, pregnant women should, to a bloated body deformation, there are clothes you can wear the already very lucky, and can only envy those who are envious of the way young girls dress looked bright.
Marriage, a woman never sleep, able to eat, fall asleep, the spirit is good;After marriage, women did not return because of the delay while men sleep, due to pregnancy, belly growing, more and more difficult to sleep, sleep quality is getting worse, even the eyelids are fighting the next day at work.
Marriage, a woman who is the most pro-mother, what thoughts will be with her mother to reveal;After marriage, a woman who is the most pro-husband, only glossy.
Marriage, women like brand names, like face;After marriage, women like benefits, like it is.
Marriage, a woman can talk all night to accompany a friend calls;After marriage, women had a 11pm, general phone not connected.
Marriage, and women were parents a lot of trouble;After marriage, women for men a lot of trouble.
Marriage, a woman or a girl;After marriage, a woman became a young woman.
Marriage, a woman ... ...After marriage, a woman ... ...
... ...
Why should a woman get married? I think the best answer is to love, to love, think, and his life together, then marriage is the best choice, since there is a soul partner. If a man woman double pamper yourself, then everything is worth; If men do not cherish owned, all in all, a woman will feel for their own worth.
Marriage, a woman can go its own way, laugh out loud burst into tears, did not care for other people look strange, it is the unassuming girl-specific capital;After marriage, women do everything, that every word before going after thinking it over, would like to caution careful, because I do not give Linlixiangqin and laugh at you, and drag you back.
Marriage, a woman can be peace of mind to accept the gift of the opposite sex and concern, but also can afford to sing, accompanied by the opposite sex, shopping, chatting, and even drink;After marriage, women have to avoid as much as possible and cut off from all of the opposite sex, opposite sex friends on the telephone connection will become a kind of guilt, carefully deal with.
Marriage, women can learn, like men, cooking wine Heroes, go home until 2:00 am It is normal;After marriage, a woman can only wait for a man after cooking wine Heroes slowly home, asleep in the waiting.
Marriage, a woman's birthday but also those romantic Tanabata festival, so rose the occasional shiny red eyes, the occasional cake over the body, and occasionally unexpected delivery from the desk received a gift;After marriage, women expect men to remember the important day, a surprise given the world a little better than man-made romantic little thought, please do not let her down, then lost.
Marriage, a woman can makeup, you can also dress gorgeously dressed, and walk ten-inch heels are blatantly attracted the eyes of passers-by;Married, pregnant women should, to a bloated body deformation, there are clothes you can wear the already very lucky, and can only envy those who are envious of the way young girls dress looked bright.
Marriage, a woman never sleep, able to eat, fall asleep, the spirit is good;After marriage, women did not return because of the delay while men sleep, due to pregnancy, belly growing, more and more difficult to sleep, sleep quality is getting worse, even the eyelids are fighting the next day at work.
Marriage, a woman who is the most pro-mother, what thoughts will be with her mother to reveal;After marriage, a woman who is the most pro-husband, only glossy.
Marriage, women like brand names, like face;After marriage, women like benefits, like it is.
Marriage, a woman can talk all night to accompany a friend calls;After marriage, women had a 11pm, general phone not connected.
Marriage, and women were parents a lot of trouble;After marriage, women for men a lot of trouble.
Marriage, a woman or a girl;After marriage, a woman became a young woman.
Marriage, a woman ... ...After marriage, a woman ... ...
... ...
Why should a woman get married? I think the best answer is to love, to love, think, and his life together, then marriage is the best choice, since there is a soul partner. If a man woman double pamper yourself, then everything is worth; If men do not cherish owned, all in all, a woman will feel for their own worth.
Buffett: The most important person in life is to focus
Half a century, Warren Buffett has been right to seize the opportunity. For the legendary investor, he has made remarkable long-term investment returns, and even some scholars are afraid to believe that this is just fluke.
Buffett himself attributed his success to "focus." Schroeder wrote: "In addition to his focus on the commercial activities, such as almost all other art, literature, science, travel, architecture, etc. are all deaf - so he can concentrate on pursuing their passion." Schroeder said in a child , Warren would carry forward their most valuable asset, coin changer. And 10 years old, his father offered to take his trip, he asked to go New York Stock Exchange. Soon after, Buffett read a book called "1000 earned $ 1,000 bills," the book, his friends said to be a millionaire before the age of 35. "In 1941, the worldwide Great Depression, a child can say a case can be really audacious, sounds downright a bit Shade," Schroeder wrote. "But ... he was sure that they can achieve this dream."
1991 U.S. Independence Day weekend, Buffett and Gates met. The meeting was Katharine Graham and her own, "Washington Post" editor Meg Greenfield carried out under the initiative.
For Gates, Buffett is still very much appreciated, although older than his 25-year-old Buffett, he knows Bill Gates is a very intelligent person, but more importantly, has the two is the "Forbes "Fortune standings competing to be the object of more people. However, to Warren Buffett for the IT people are not cold personality, he is certainly not to join Catherine weekend trip, but to persuasion in Greenfield, Buffett shaken. Greenfield told him: "You will certainly like Gates's parents, but also a lot of interesting people will go." Ultimately, Buffett agreed.
Buffett thought of seeing them, Gates's mind it not the same? "My mother and I talked about, and the conclusion is that the mother asked me, asked me why I do not come to dinner at home? I told her I was too busy I can not get away, but she moved out of Katharine Graham and Buffett two people, said they have participated in! "But," I told my mother that I would take the money for that stock options investment in people do not know, I can not communicate with him, and we are not a world of people! However, in the mother's insistence, I agreed. "
For the first time we met two giants, many people are carefully observed. At least on one point, Buffett and Gates are similar, if they are not keen topic, they will try to choose to end. Gates for poor people to hide their patience already heard, while Buffett, although the feeling of boredom in the face when the topic turned to walk away he will not find the book in advance to see, but he still has his own way, he would the first time to his interest in the topic never freed.
In the exchange with Gates, Buffett as usual, there is no transition language straight to the topic, he asked Gates about the future trend of IBM's problems, he also asked Gates whether Microsoft, IBM has become quite a lot competitors, and the information industry companies change so fast why not? Gates 11 to make a reply. He told the two Buffett to buy technology stocks: Intel and Microsoft. Gates questions turn, he made the newspaper to the other economic problems, Buffett said bluntly newspaper economy is one step towards the abyss of destruction, and other media that has a direct relationship to flourish. Just a few minutes, two people full access to the in-depth exchange of state.
We have been in the chat, endless, did not notice the others. I asked him a lot about the IT industry, but I never thought to belong to him to understand that industry. Gates is a very good teacher, we have no one to talk to the end of this idea.
Buffett and Gates talk while walking, came to the beach from the garden, people are competing trailing. "We did not notice the existence of these people here, did not notice there are many important people around, but finally can not see Bill Gates's father passed, he was very gentleman told us he wanted us to integrate into our this party, do not always two people talking. "
Bill began trying to convince me after buying a computer, but I told him I do not know what computers can do for me, I do not mind if I change the curve of specific investment projects, I do not want every five minutes to look at the results, I told him I to grasp all this very clearly. But Bill did not give up, he said to send Microsoft the most beautiful lady to sell me the sales of Microsoft products, so she taught me how to use the computer. Very interesting the way he spoke, I told him: "You let out a condition can not refuse, but I still refused."
Until the sun sets, cocktail party started, they talk not over yet. When Gates came before the plane would leave in the evening, but the aircraft away, Gates did not go, he is still enjoying the pleasure of chatting with Buffett.
Dinner time, Gates's father asked you a question, the most important person's life is what? My answer is "focused", while Bill and I have the same answer!
When Warren Buffett says "focus" word, do not know how many people here can understand his meaning of the word, but has been focused on Warren Buffett is an important first line guide. Focus on that? For the pursuit of perfection, and this disposition is peculiar, not Who got the imitation will be able to imitate.
Focus not only do things the key to success is a healthy soul qualities. Focus is to concentrate attention to something above, and the things you care about integration, not to be attracted to other foreign objects will not linger on the anxiety.
People who can not concentrate, it can not relax. Focus and relaxation, in fact, just two sides of same coin, being focused is a key characteristic of life.
A focus on one thing only investment will be fun. For one thing, no matter what your past its prejudices, think how boring it is, once you focus into it, it immediately becomes a living together! And a most beautiful state, is to enter the living state.
Focus for the pursuit of professional excellence, precisely because of focus, only the achievements of Thomas Edison, the United States, the greatest inventor in history; It is because of focus before the birth of Walt Disney's animation of the world-renowned father; It is because of focus, just to let everyone know the United States Godfather of Soul James Brown. Similarly, the focus or determination to complete the great cause, otherwise, people will not see the first woman legislator Jane Nite Lan gold against all the odds against the United States in two world wars, which wars to the world in addition to disaster is painful.
Buffett himself attributed his success to "focus." Schroeder wrote: "In addition to his focus on the commercial activities, such as almost all other art, literature, science, travel, architecture, etc. are all deaf - so he can concentrate on pursuing their passion." Schroeder said in a child , Warren would carry forward their most valuable asset, coin changer. And 10 years old, his father offered to take his trip, he asked to go New York Stock Exchange. Soon after, Buffett read a book called "1000 earned $ 1,000 bills," the book, his friends said to be a millionaire before the age of 35. "In 1941, the worldwide Great Depression, a child can say a case can be really audacious, sounds downright a bit Shade," Schroeder wrote. "But ... he was sure that they can achieve this dream."
1991 U.S. Independence Day weekend, Buffett and Gates met. The meeting was Katharine Graham and her own, "Washington Post" editor Meg Greenfield carried out under the initiative.
For Gates, Buffett is still very much appreciated, although older than his 25-year-old Buffett, he knows Bill Gates is a very intelligent person, but more importantly, has the two is the "Forbes "Fortune standings competing to be the object of more people. However, to Warren Buffett for the IT people are not cold personality, he is certainly not to join Catherine weekend trip, but to persuasion in Greenfield, Buffett shaken. Greenfield told him: "You will certainly like Gates's parents, but also a lot of interesting people will go." Ultimately, Buffett agreed.
Buffett thought of seeing them, Gates's mind it not the same? "My mother and I talked about, and the conclusion is that the mother asked me, asked me why I do not come to dinner at home? I told her I was too busy I can not get away, but she moved out of Katharine Graham and Buffett two people, said they have participated in! "But," I told my mother that I would take the money for that stock options investment in people do not know, I can not communicate with him, and we are not a world of people! However, in the mother's insistence, I agreed. "
For the first time we met two giants, many people are carefully observed. At least on one point, Buffett and Gates are similar, if they are not keen topic, they will try to choose to end. Gates for poor people to hide their patience already heard, while Buffett, although the feeling of boredom in the face when the topic turned to walk away he will not find the book in advance to see, but he still has his own way, he would the first time to his interest in the topic never freed.
In the exchange with Gates, Buffett as usual, there is no transition language straight to the topic, he asked Gates about the future trend of IBM's problems, he also asked Gates whether Microsoft, IBM has become quite a lot competitors, and the information industry companies change so fast why not? Gates 11 to make a reply. He told the two Buffett to buy technology stocks: Intel and Microsoft. Gates questions turn, he made the newspaper to the other economic problems, Buffett said bluntly newspaper economy is one step towards the abyss of destruction, and other media that has a direct relationship to flourish. Just a few minutes, two people full access to the in-depth exchange of state.
We have been in the chat, endless, did not notice the others. I asked him a lot about the IT industry, but I never thought to belong to him to understand that industry. Gates is a very good teacher, we have no one to talk to the end of this idea.
Buffett and Gates talk while walking, came to the beach from the garden, people are competing trailing. "We did not notice the existence of these people here, did not notice there are many important people around, but finally can not see Bill Gates's father passed, he was very gentleman told us he wanted us to integrate into our this party, do not always two people talking. "
Bill began trying to convince me after buying a computer, but I told him I do not know what computers can do for me, I do not mind if I change the curve of specific investment projects, I do not want every five minutes to look at the results, I told him I to grasp all this very clearly. But Bill did not give up, he said to send Microsoft the most beautiful lady to sell me the sales of Microsoft products, so she taught me how to use the computer. Very interesting the way he spoke, I told him: "You let out a condition can not refuse, but I still refused."
Until the sun sets, cocktail party started, they talk not over yet. When Gates came before the plane would leave in the evening, but the aircraft away, Gates did not go, he is still enjoying the pleasure of chatting with Buffett.
Dinner time, Gates's father asked you a question, the most important person's life is what? My answer is "focused", while Bill and I have the same answer!
When Warren Buffett says "focus" word, do not know how many people here can understand his meaning of the word, but has been focused on Warren Buffett is an important first line guide. Focus on that? For the pursuit of perfection, and this disposition is peculiar, not Who got the imitation will be able to imitate.
Focus not only do things the key to success is a healthy soul qualities. Focus is to concentrate attention to something above, and the things you care about integration, not to be attracted to other foreign objects will not linger on the anxiety.
People who can not concentrate, it can not relax. Focus and relaxation, in fact, just two sides of same coin, being focused is a key characteristic of life.
A focus on one thing only investment will be fun. For one thing, no matter what your past its prejudices, think how boring it is, once you focus into it, it immediately becomes a living together! And a most beautiful state, is to enter the living state.
Focus for the pursuit of professional excellence, precisely because of focus, only the achievements of Thomas Edison, the United States, the greatest inventor in history; It is because of focus before the birth of Walt Disney's animation of the world-renowned father; It is because of focus, just to let everyone know the United States Godfather of Soul James Brown. Similarly, the focus or determination to complete the great cause, otherwise, people will not see the first woman legislator Jane Nite Lan gold against all the odds against the United States in two world wars, which wars to the world in addition to disaster is painful.
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