Dandelion, do not want to fly

"Dandelion, yellow flowers, the flowers off the umbrella to fight. White umbrella, great ability, with God baby friends. Fluttering, floating, Sasa Sa, yellow full Shanwa next year." "Dandelion, yellow flowers ..."
Smoke-filled world, however vaguely ethereal voice came pulling, stretching deep, through my empty soul, my messy thoughts. I am exceedingly strange: "Who's here to sing it?"
Thus, Following the sound. The first is the golden preserved everywhere, greeted by, confused with my eyes. Passing breeze, grass green and yellow against the background of each other, touch each other with, free of any air flying his own dance, with the melody of the song's charm becomes more and more the spirit of spring. In the blue sky, the yellow background canvas, flickering in half a body stuck in a lengthy blowing over. I went over to see, was a little sister. She saw me, panic-stricken, they always turn 180 degrees, quickly rubbed his eyes. After a long, squat down with a small hand will be playing with a dandelion, golden hands full.
I am curious to ask: "girl, you doing it?"
She said: "Sister, why the dandelion to fly it?"
I said: "The laws of nature it! As people grow up, they want to leave home as well."
Sister eclipsed, leaving it face, the body weak swing slightly in the breeze. But people can still see the cracks in her tears as under the eaves of the beads, drop by drop, fall dandelion petals, clear and bright. Then, even with a weak voice said, sobbing: "Mom does not have seven or eight at home, and finally can see my mother this year, but wait until the dandelion flowers, her left hand to help if I block the wind Dandelion, so it does not fly away, the mother will not go. is not it? "little sister happy by the sad turn, stared at me, full of expectation. I repeated the phrase: "Yes, your mother will not take as long as you study hard, grow up, your mother will never go. In fact, dandelion, do not want to fly."
I squat body, stroked dandelion, heart burst of pain and did not really go? Why? I looked at the hands of the dandelion, in this bleak picture, the dandelion, wind, leaving the hands of only a few leaves ... ... knew it, tears have been bombs fell on the fingers, slide dandelion leaves, wet a dry thin veins. From this, I seem to see themselves and those who left before the next tragedy, roots, was long withheld.
Spring in the walk, the cold and taken away, the lonely squandered, leaving only the beauties of springtime.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Helpless to fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because there is no wallow in the warmth of the root, heavy to fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because no one considered the heart and care about it, lonely and fly.
Dandelion, do not want to fly. Because before the flight, they need a warm home, even if the home is not home is home.
Dandelion, do not want to fly.

Why women want to get married

Marriage, a woman can do anything for money, do not hesitate to buy anything, want to travel immediately action, and then very proud to tell friends: I am a paycheck to paycheck;After marriage, women have to live frugally, more and more stingy on their own, one has extra money into the banks thought for the well-being of both the accumulation of deposits.
Marriage, a woman can go its own way, laugh out loud burst into tears, did not care for other people look strange, it is the unassuming girl-specific capital;After marriage, women do everything, that every word before going after thinking it over, would like to caution careful, because I do not give Linlixiangqin and laugh at you, and drag you back.
Marriage, a woman can be peace of mind to accept the gift of the opposite sex and concern, but also can afford to sing, accompanied by the opposite sex, shopping, chatting, and even drink;After marriage, women have to avoid as much as possible and cut off from all of the opposite sex, opposite sex friends on the telephone connection will become a kind of guilt, carefully deal with.
Marriage, women can learn, like men, cooking wine Heroes, go home until 2:00 am It is normal;After marriage, a woman can only wait for a man after cooking wine Heroes slowly home, asleep in the waiting.
Marriage, a woman's birthday but also those romantic Tanabata festival, so rose the occasional shiny red eyes, the occasional cake over the body, and occasionally unexpected delivery from the desk received a gift;After marriage, women expect men to remember the important day, a surprise given the world a little better than man-made romantic little thought, please do not let her down, then lost.
Marriage, a woman can makeup, you can also dress gorgeously dressed, and walk ten-inch heels are blatantly attracted the eyes of passers-by;Married, pregnant women should, to a bloated body deformation, there are clothes you can wear the already very lucky, and can only envy those who are envious of the way young girls dress looked bright.
Marriage, a woman never sleep, able to eat, fall asleep, the spirit is good;After marriage, women did not return because of the delay while men sleep, due to pregnancy, belly growing, more and more difficult to sleep, sleep quality is getting worse, even the eyelids are fighting the next day at work.
Marriage, a woman who is the most pro-mother, what thoughts will be with her mother to reveal;After marriage, a woman who is the most pro-husband, only glossy.
Marriage, women like brand names, like face;After marriage, women like benefits, like it is.
Marriage, a woman can talk all night to accompany a friend calls;After marriage, women had a 11pm, general phone not connected.
Marriage, and women were parents a lot of trouble;After marriage, women for men a lot of trouble.
Marriage, a woman or a girl;After marriage, a woman became a young woman.
Marriage, a woman ... ...After marriage, a woman ... ...
... ...
Why should a woman get married? I think the best answer is to love, to love, think, and his life together, then marriage is the best choice, since there is a soul partner. If a man woman double pamper yourself, then everything is worth; If men do not cherish owned, all in all, a woman will feel for their own worth.

Buffett: The most important person in life is to focus

Half a century, Warren Buffett has been right to seize the opportunity. For the legendary investor, he has made remarkable long-term investment returns, and even some scholars are afraid to believe that this is just fluke.
Buffett himself attributed his success to "focus." Schroeder wrote: "In addition to his focus on the commercial activities, such as almost all other art, literature, science, travel, architecture, etc. are all deaf - so he can concentrate on pursuing their passion." Schroeder said in a child , Warren would carry forward their most valuable asset, coin changer. And 10 years old, his father offered to take his trip, he asked to go New York Stock Exchange. Soon after, Buffett read a book called "1000 earned $ 1,000 bills," the book, his friends said to be a millionaire before the age of 35. "In 1941, the worldwide Great Depression, a child can say a case can be really audacious, sounds downright a bit Shade," Schroeder wrote. "But ... he was sure that they can achieve this dream."
1991 U.S. Independence Day weekend, Buffett and Gates met. The meeting was Katharine Graham and her own, "Washington Post" editor Meg Greenfield carried out under the initiative.
For Gates, Buffett is still very much appreciated, although older than his 25-year-old Buffett, he knows Bill Gates is a very intelligent person, but more importantly, has the two is the "Forbes "Fortune standings competing to be the object of more people. However, to Warren Buffett for the IT people are not cold personality, he is certainly not to join Catherine weekend trip, but to persuasion in Greenfield, Buffett shaken. Greenfield told him: "You will certainly like Gates's parents, but also a lot of interesting people will go." Ultimately, Buffett agreed.
Buffett thought of seeing them, Gates's mind it not the same? "My mother and I talked about, and the conclusion is that the mother asked me, asked me why I do not come to dinner at home? I told her I was too busy I can not get away, but she moved out of Katharine Graham and Buffett two people, said they have participated in! "But," I told my mother that I would take the money for that stock options investment in people do not know, I can not communicate with him, and we are not a world of people! However, in the mother's insistence, I agreed. "
For the first time we met two giants, many people are carefully observed. At least on one point, Buffett and Gates are similar, if they are not keen topic, they will try to choose to end. Gates for poor people to hide their patience already heard, while Buffett, although the feeling of boredom in the face when the topic turned to walk away he will not find the book in advance to see, but he still has his own way, he would the first time to his interest in the topic never freed.
In the exchange with Gates, Buffett as usual, there is no transition language straight to the topic, he asked Gates about the future trend of IBM's problems, he also asked Gates whether Microsoft, IBM has become quite a lot competitors, and the information industry companies change so fast why not? Gates 11 to make a reply. He told the two Buffett to buy technology stocks: Intel and Microsoft. Gates questions turn, he made the newspaper to the other economic problems, Buffett said bluntly newspaper economy is one step towards the abyss of destruction, and other media that has a direct relationship to flourish. Just a few minutes, two people full access to the in-depth exchange of state.
We have been in the chat, endless, did not notice the others. I asked him a lot about the IT industry, but I never thought to belong to him to understand that industry. Gates is a very good teacher, we have no one to talk to the end of this idea.
Buffett and Gates talk while walking, came to the beach from the garden, people are competing trailing. "We did not notice the existence of these people here, did not notice there are many important people around, but finally can not see Bill Gates's father passed, he was very gentleman told us he wanted us to integrate into our this party, do not always two people talking. "
Bill began trying to convince me after buying a computer, but I told him I do not know what computers can do for me, I do not mind if I change the curve of specific investment projects, I do not want every five minutes to look at the results, I told him I to grasp all this very clearly. But Bill did not give up, he said to send Microsoft the most beautiful lady to sell me the sales of Microsoft products, so she taught me how to use the computer. Very interesting the way he spoke, I told him: "You let out a condition can not refuse, but I still refused."
Until the sun sets, cocktail party started, they talk not over yet. When Gates came before the plane would leave in the evening, but the aircraft away, Gates did not go, he is still enjoying the pleasure of chatting with Buffett.
Dinner time, Gates's father asked you a question, the most important person's life is what? My answer is "focused", while Bill and I have the same answer!
When Warren Buffett says "focus" word, do not know how many people here can understand his meaning of the word, but has been focused on Warren Buffett is an important first line guide. Focus on that? For the pursuit of perfection, and this disposition is peculiar, not Who got the imitation will be able to imitate.
Focus not only do things the key to success is a healthy soul qualities. Focus is to concentrate attention to something above, and the things you care about integration, not to be attracted to other foreign objects will not linger on the anxiety.
People who can not concentrate, it can not relax. Focus and relaxation, in fact, just two sides of same coin, being focused is a key characteristic of life.
A focus on one thing only investment will be fun. For one thing, no matter what your past its prejudices, think how boring it is, once you focus into it, it immediately becomes a living together! And a most beautiful state, is to enter the living state.
Focus for the pursuit of professional excellence, precisely because of focus, only the achievements of Thomas Edison, the United States, the greatest inventor in history; It is because of focus before the birth of Walt Disney's animation of the world-renowned father; It is because of focus, just to let everyone know the United States Godfather of Soul James Brown. Similarly, the focus or determination to complete the great cause, otherwise, people will not see the first woman legislator Jane Nite Lan gold against all the odds against the United States in two world wars, which wars to the world in addition to disaster is painful.

Tear

Thank you filled my blank memory,

Thank you for allowing me to find courage in amnesia,

Thank you for the countless quiet night,

I opened a deep memories.

Because of you I learned to forget,

Learn what is valued,

Learned to jealousy,

Jealous of you flow into the eyes of others.

You look at the eyes of others,

I seem to really lose courage,

More so hard to say,

Suffering too much pain there is no sound.

Until the day you have changed,

Because people change,

Into the eyes of the vulnerable,

Quietly interpretation of desolation,

Unexpected things

I mess up everything,

Cold recall,

Deeply out of the traces,

Sigh choice to give up the pain,

Italian hard like helpless pain,

I do not want to let you re-appear,

You see I know what to do,

I hide you,

In my heart .....

Men before the age of 30 things you need to know

1, the cause of the first
Although money is not everything, but no money is totally unacceptable, although this phrase is vulgar, but certainly makes sense, so before the age of 30, please put most of your energy on your career.
2, Do not read too much money
Do not complain that they are low wages, bank deposits, 4 below the median, see the future, need to do now is to work hard to learn, even if your diploma and then high, how to put theory into practice still requires a long training process, the community is always is a most broad university, it allows you to have learned more than you learned in school are much more important, so the same, mind you and not too low academic qualifications. Ability on their own before the age of 30 who buy a house or a car very few.
3, learn to appreciate their parents
Biexian nagging them, so you know your father poor parents, in their eyes you're still a child, but they are really old, you now have to coax them happy, maybe just one of your phone, a small gift, you can let them feel at ease, it is easy to do.
4, good friends hand
Friends have a major impact on your life, not to meet too many fair-weather friends, at least at a critical moment to have a friend help you, if you encounter such a person, you take advantage of the future will be useful, whether he is rich or poor.
5, Do not believe in love
Hearts have loved, but please mention Auntie Qiong Yao also do not believe that the novel inside the vows, There are no eternal, it is important that responsibility, but a woman heart undersea needle, the heart has changed, everything is as vain, you have to do is This can act, do not hesitate when the let go. Love before the age of 30 is not fake, but just that most people do not really grasp the good, and they learn to do what.
6, do not worry there still kiss
Love is not much but in essence, do not think his 20-year-old girl has not touched on the fear they will never find a wife. After you have many opportunities to know the girls, although the man to know the community more than women, but the reality is that more women than men actually worry about this problem. 30 a man took, you rise rather than fall, mature love is often more beautiful and long-term, so do not see a girl like a mad dog would want to go, learn to taste loneliness.
7, do not indulge in anything
The so-called objects, rather despondent, online games are out of school before you play, you do not have to spend extra time and effort into something like that, something else after you had to repay the overdraft. A person must have interests, hobbies, but please distinguish the severity.
8, Young did not fail
Do not become discouraged and frustrated on, young people should always maintain a positive attitude. Failed, re-came; lost, and then for another. Missed, to analyze, next to, to grasp; naive, next, a mature point. It does not matter, will be good, even to the extreme, do not give up, I believe we can survive it. Not negative, will be good. Once the fault has passed, we can not memorable in the past. Now, well, tired, finished, very comfortable. Do not hurt, there is always someone to support you.
9, Do not worship or despise a person
People have idols, but please have your own personality. Do not bother to imitate a person, because you are you, is the only and unique, to have self-confidence. Do not negate a person, each person is valuable, if you can not understand him, please learn to accept.
10, have a sense of responsibility
No matter what you have, but from now on be a man of integrity. Men have a sense of responsibility, whether at work or in life, a sense of responsibility to make others feel safe people, let people think you are a trustworthy person. We are not weak, but please do not hurt people you love who you love, especially the good girl, good girl because the world is running out, even if do not want to have, but please let her keep her beautiful heart.
11, men's appearance is not important
Not for their height and too much about looks, a kind-hearted, upright man who had plenty of handsome appearance than, upright figure of a man to be dirty, but the heart is much more handsome. If someone judge a book, please do not take too much notice, because you do not have to go to a vulgar and sad.
12, learn how to protect the body
Do not think that now smoking, drinking, staying up all night has nothing to do. That is because your body is in a prime time of your life. 30 years of age you will be able to understand the meaning of the word powerless, the body is the capital of revolution, there is no good body do anything, so had to try to make their regular healthy living.
13, do not feel nothing
You do not have to talk about success, of course, if you have millions of assets, except. Started too steady jobs is not necessarily a good thing, perhaps constantly diverted in which you will learn more knowledgeable, and can tap their own potential, to find the most suitable for your work.
14, carefully work
Even if your current job no matter how boring no matter how low, even if you are a serious effort to deal with, you know any successful people is to start from the smallest things, maybe you learn what great knowledge, but at least you have to learn good work attitude and working methods, which is very important to the future.
15, please take seriously the feelings of
Do not envy those who, like his shoes for women, like the Playboy, flirtation love just a waste of time you waste energy, the most painful one is not finding love, but they have no love, I love you when you put three most likely to say the word into your sentence, then you love the world has been difficult to find real happiness. Love is not fair, there is always a person to pay much more than the other, even if no results, do not feel worth, because you pay not only for her, but also to your own love, for love is very valuable, praise their own look .
16, please leave a little innocence
Deep down, even if only a small corner, keep a childlike innocence, not naive, but sometimes just a little will make you very happy. So do not be too care about gains and losses, this is no perfect life.

Learn to forget

One night, I went to see a friend being framed, dinner, friends, pick up the phone, I heard someone come out to tell a friend Who framed him, friends say you do not tell me, I do not want to know. I am a little surprised, a friend explained that, know what? Some things do not need to know, some things need to forget.
I applaud the open-minded friends. Shiba Jiu often unhappy life, make yourself happy, you have to relieve the pressure, decompression is a good way to learn to forget that life can afford needs could get, and sometimes put it down even more important. There is a small Buddhist story, said the old monk and the monk went to beg alms, novices respectful, nothing looked the master, went to the river, a woman to cross the river, the old monk crossed the river on her own woman, the woman thanks After leaving, the young monk I always thought, how can the master back the girl cross the river? But he not dare to ask, has been gone 20 years, he really wait any longer, and asked the master, we are monks, how can you back that the woman cross the river? Master said dismissively, I put her back across the river to put down, but you are 20 years of her not back down.
If Zen monk is full, think about it, but also of life. Person's life like a long journey, keep walking, will see a wide variety of scenery along the way, after many ups and downs, if you came to see past all the heart in mind, will give themselves a lot additional burden on the richer experience, the greater the pressure, might as well forget all the way along the way, always keep traveling light. The past is past, time can not turn the clock back, remember the lessons learned in addition to other, need not bear a grudge.
Willing to forget is a psychological balance, calm and sincere need to face life. Some people can forget the embarrassment and distress when frustrated, but then talked about good times, the pride, do not you know will stay the same success and failure in the past, always wallow in the past can not be relieved, I was young I would often say how how to take yesterday When the beautiful yellow eyes, so a solo stay forever in my heart, complacent, smug, stuck among themselves and false, will procrastinate, hesitate. The past is not a hero brave is justified. The pain of the past repeated chewing, always look the more undesirable the Kudachoushen. Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore said, "If you cry for the loss of the sun, you also miss the stars." Preoccupied with the trivial, rotten corn sesame Chen heart, I'm afraid overwhelmed the soul of the ship, carrying no less than the memory of the boat, will live a painful past to contain the future. Old saying goes: angry is someone else's mistake to punish oneself. Always obsessed with other people's bad, in fact, suffer is their own, let bygones be bygones who is happy relaxed people.
Forget the need to choose, some people some things in your life can not forget, nor should forget. Ali, the famous Arab writer, once and gilbert, Martha two friends traveling together. Three passing through a valley, Martha slip slide. Fortunately, gilbert desperately pull him, before he rescued. Martha then in the nearby stone head carved: "One day a certain period, gilbert save Martha's life." Three days to go, came to a river, gilbert with Martha as a small quarrel, gilbert angrily hit Martha a slap in the face. Martha went to the beach and wrote: "One day a certain period, gilbert played Masha a slap in the face." When they travel back, Masha Ali curious to ask why should gilbert things carved in to save him rock on, things will gilbert beat him to write in the sand? Martha replied: "I am always grateful gilbert, help me, I will remember. As he hit me, and I only with the disappearance of writing on the beach, forgetting their heads." This story tells us, remember to help others to you, forget other people's bad for you, this is a man's part.
Many people like it a vernacular poem: flowers in spring and autumn for a month, with cool summer and winter snow. If there is no big deal to hang my heart, is the human good season. Remember that some of the things some people forget certain things to certain people, be remembered, forget the forgotten, free and easy life, with no Guaai, you will feel life is so beautiful.

Struggle

Since the choice, it is necessary trials and hardships; only to pay, we should no regrets. - Inscription
I was born in rural areas, rural father was a substitute teacher, teaching in private schools long, hard and get up early and stay up late the accumulated body should not have made good his father's failing health, combined with successive years of bronchitis often cough. Bad influence in school, the school department as reasons, and my father eventually forced to quit the monthly salary of the working class work is not high, which means out of work and at home. Mom was a sheer labor of rural women. The simple life, farming the tired, heavy family burden, coupled with my sister and her mother is not sensible old a lot. Mother to all her youth are dedicated to the entire family, but my mother never complained, never regretted it. I know, my sister and my mother's life care, my sister and my mother always spiritual power. No matter how life distress, how difficult. My sister and I learn as long as the future elite universities, parents, no matter how hard they will not be overwhelmed by life. My parents and my sister is always hope and waiting.
Dad is not good for the body, the father can not go to work. But no father's wages, which means we cut off a source of livelihood of people. Home fields every year, recession, bad harvest when they lose money. So, my sister and I always will have the possibility of dropping out of school. Because my father is a teacher, good character, generous kind, in the summer was invited to give extra lessons, fees are low, serious and responsible, so we have a unit that won a good reputation. So my father at home, own business, and set up a "Rural children left home." But this is a public good, so it is only through hard work accompanied by such a meager profit to sustain their families. However, due to various reasons, the situation is not very optimistic. Baba had borne the day, this mother and father had a falling out "n" times stand up.
My sister and I were to good results in 08, 09, admitted to the Dang in abundance, in the neighbors view, how they envy us, a provincial focus, one is a national key high school. Our parents are proud, but my sister and I both know that the pride behind and what it means - is not only a huge cost, as well as all the pressure. I sincerely hope with parents, with relatives and friends good wishes, gorgeous colored with his own dreams to enter colleges and universities this. But one semester, one academic year have passed, and I love to make all of my disappointment, I sorry for them, my grades plummeted, and I could not believe their own self-discipline has always been good how hard will fail.
In fact, I have now is a sophomore. I have grown up, but also understand a lot of things. Urgent desire for success on the sincere friendship maintenance, a better vision of love, etc., etc., this all so I can not sleep. Maybe some things are too early, too early for me, I can not go, "intoxicated." I know I have to go make a choice, should not have to give up. Because I come from rural areas, I do not want to be behind. I am a rural person, I clearly know that every child in a rural mission is to complete the wish of the previous generation left. Out of the countryside and into cities to seek better and higher grade of city life, never again suffer in rural areas suffer, not to let others look down, not to let their own children also born in the rural areas, I want to change their fate, I'm going to struggle, struggle, struggle ... I know, everything I have no choice, I must succeed, everything does not allow me to fail, I can not fail.
I know I chose the road is full of bitterness, despair, loneliness and pain. But this is my only way out. Although I am a rural person, I can not "hate" because "hate" will bring all the troubles and failures, I'm going to love, love yourself, love life, love all the people who love me. I understand that only love can bring joy, can bring success.
Although I now have scars, but the "shock troops" in Sando's a "do not abandon, do not give up," I see hope, maybe I will once again failed, but I will once again stretched the wings of a pair of unyielding to one of their own hard work out of the sky. I now appears that yesterday's successes and failures have no meaning to grasp today, so tomorrow reveal more brilliant smile, with the struggle of the will of the youthful oath to defend. No hesitation, no longer wandering, to grasp the progress of their own. All rely on their own efforts, strong wind and rain through with sweat verify the success of youth without any regrets. Life does not believe in tears, but not back, even if unaccompanied in front, I have to go.
Struggle, we must give up the share of freedom, choice accompanied by quiet solitude.
Struggle, we must give up that part of fate, courage, self-confidence accompanied by choice.
Struggle, we must get rid of that prosperity, accompanied by selected bitter suffering.
Life is good, so that everyone can cherish what they have every day, so that life no regrets.

Salvation

That day, but for small C, and her boyfriend pulled the pain I kiss my lips nails I cried aloud, he will not just break into my bedroom, shaking with her boyfriend beat the meal. I straightened clothes, cold arms folded staring at all, as if the whole thing has nothing to do with me. Boyfriend wiped his mouth from the ground up the blood, looked at me bitterly, running for the door away. His face was flushed, red with rage, pointing at me shouted: "You only 16 years old! You look at what you fall into, and how do you worthy of your mother!" He did not mention my mother I would not bother with He argued that he could not help mentioning that I really had. "My mother?! What makes you qualified to mention my mom said!" I am fiercely pushed him away, ran to the door.
Yes. Him, that person is my father. But since my mother died, "Dad," the word became my taboo. I'll never forget how my mother is a gesture of despair, and fell from the 15th floor, dancing like a wonderful bloom in magnificent scarlet, the color was filled with rain, red white white of that summer. Since then, I became one look just like the hedgehog, fearless, cynical.
I walk aimlessly in the street, a small C suddenly rushed out from the corner, pulling my arm onto my corner. "I did not think of your blood cold." He put me on the wall by the wearer, so I could not move. I did not say anything, it's still so proud and cold greet his eyes. "Dare to play me? You will regret the day." He smiled and meaningful to me, eyes fiercely not half points. He put down my heavy, and walked away. I suddenly fell to the ground, aching muscles. I knew he was not good, I did not expect so early exposure. I directed back in his heart cursed the numerous bastard.
While I do not know where to go when the pocket cell phone rang. Small H classmate's name flashes on the screen. "What do you want?" I asked impatiently picked up the vocal. "Oh all right, thank you lend me that the physical reference, I have used well, also when you ah?" He said, stumbling over the phone. "I do not." I put down such a sentence ready to hang. That reference is to the man I bought, but I do not want to receive his love. "Hey how do you? I did not put the book dirty, did not broke, did not break, why do not ah? Is too I've used?" Little H on the phone talking to himself like a wordy, I am a not listen. However, this stupid pastime pastime touches can be used.
I sat opposite a small H, head down, breathing in the hands of the beverage drinking. Inadvertently looked up and saw him on the thin dense amount of sweat. I said: "You hot?" He looked at me panic, but quickly bowed his head: "No, no." My heart burst of funny. The small H, study, a long family background is also good but also can be chosen people shy tight, look just like a stupid. "Money with no money to use ... ... ... ... how to do ..." I muttered to himself biting straw. "I have!" Little H is eager eyes wide open look. I have white at him: "I do not want other people's money." Ponder over and over again, I got up and pounded his desk: "I want to support themselves!" Stared across the small H: "You do not go to school?" "Yes, trouble you with the teacher say, I will not go. "Yes, I do not spend the money man, I want to support themselves.
Two
Humming a ditty all the way to go on the way home, a small H in the edge Pidianpidian follow me. "Do not go to school on so happy?" Little H's voice slightly lonely. "You realize this is not my kind of honors students feel inferior." I said lightly. Then I heard what he recited a few: "1,2,3,4 ..." "A total of 11, do a few." I said idly. He was surprised, said: "So many pierced ears, the pain does not really hurt you?" I did not answer him, just keep the street to enjoy the scenery. That scene was just as casual but stinging broke into my eyes.
It was a hotel. Separated by thick glass, I saw a woman and sitting face to face. Man hand stroking his forehead in one hand and fist on the table, a bitter look. Hand to hand on the woman the man's hand on the table, and saying something. I do not care about behind the small H, and flew home.
I looked at the clock on the wall, wrote a note on the table: betrayal of my mother's fate, you will know soon. I picked up a fruit knife, out of the wrist, cutting a little bit of tingling down ... ... suddenly filled from the wrist to the body. Pointer to stop walking the wall, large tracts of red Akira halo my eyes, my eyes seemed to emerge a mother lying in a pool of blood in the pale face ... ...
I woke up, the white room the moment so my brain short circuit. I struggled to get up, I saw the arm studded tubes. Just then, the man came from the doorway carrying a heat box. He woke up to see me, quickly put down the insulation box, help me firmly secured. I then note that he seems to old age overnight, vicissitudes and haggard. "I'll give you a chicken stew, Bubu body." He filled a good soup-to-front of me. I move also did not move. He sighed: "Do not worry, do not you agree, I will not let any woman into our house door." "Oh, yes, you have the students see you. Ask me what you eat, you know Love you buy bananas to go bananas. "
Just then, a small H came panting. "There are students in this with you you, I breathe out." He finished turned and went out. "How do you come?" I asked a small H. "Let me tell you the class teacher, to drop out to parents to the school I call you did not get through ... ... and then go to your house your dad told me you hurt ..." I'm too lazy Daqiang. "You're not ... ... really want to go die? Very scary you know?" Small H the fruit down, shaken said. "I'm not dead yet not scary. Hey, I'm hungry to end the soup." I feel comfortable command said. His robust, heavy-handed reach for soup handed to me. "I hand how to drink?" I stared at him snappily. He said panic; "that I ... Hey you ..." Then I would scoop a spoonful of feed. "In the future not the case, your father is very worried about you." He Qieqie said. "Do not you tube. Besides, I count well ahead of time, I did not intend to die in vain." Contented I wiped his mouth. The remaining H an incredible expression of small Leng Leng, carrying a bowl.
After discharge, the pillow under my bedroom more than a pile of money. Attached a note: Do not hurt yourself, I beg you. Not without my heart touched. However, for the mother's departure, I still can not get, I just want him to die alone to make up!
Three
I'm sure the work place, although I am strongly opposed to the small H do, of course, for me he promised confidentiality.
I am in a bar with bands, although it will encounter a lot of harassment, but still liked the job. In addition to money, but also in this turbid environment, many are not happy to unconsciously vent out. So, after a month. I do not know how to deal with personal things that I drop out, in short, do anything I think he is justified.
Until one day I have a private room named to accompany singing. I had to step into that private room. Azeri lot of room, men and women, all kinds. Of course, the most prominent, or sitting in the middle of a small C. Cuddle him full of scantily clad women, smiles to his cigarette lighter, fed fruit. And he was a very enjoyable expression. This picture I feel like vomiting. He picked up the microphone evil with a smile: "we believe it or not, this girl's blood is cold!" Whistles and laughter suddenly coming from all directions. "How do you know this girl?" "Of course knowledge is not general knowledge." Do not have deep meaning behind the little C said. "Really? How it taste like ah? Is not correct ah?" A hideous tattoo of a man who has said as he gearing up close to me. "Oh, never mind. Not only did not taste fresh, also beating." Pretended to a small C sorry look. I quietly slowly move to the door. Suddenly, behind him was shoved one, I go lie ahead, knock to the forehead on the corner coffee table, a few drops of blood drip onto the floor. A man pulled up my tattoo, put his hand into my underwear. I held back the forehead of pain, reach out and bitter rejection of the tattoo man a slap in the face. "Oh, there temper? Personality, I like!" Tattoo man hit my face feeling was laugh. Then, the game is a group of hooligans. I was the same as a ball from the arms of a man pushed to the arms of another man, pulled to and fro, along with the still violent kissing, all over the laughter, whistles and arrogant slap in the face from time to time flying, My mouth began to resound with the sweet fishy.
In this way, I was tortured messy clothes, dying. Eventually, the tattoo man I've broken a ripped shirt, and ripped off my underwear. At this point, I have upper body naked, cover your chest, my exhausted body strength. But they still miss me, but the herd to tear my pants. I swear, I never flew a moment like this you want to die, including my mother lying in a pool of blood, including a fruit knife I picked up a little bit down towards the wrist cut ... ...
In my desperate to be added, blurred sense of time, the door was suddenly kicked open, break into two people, followed by the sound of fighting. I think I saw the blur in the personal vicissitudes and haggard eyes the anger of the light injection. I felt my body was draped in a dress, then I was picked up a soft nest in the arms, it feels like cotton, like clouds. I was very sleepy ... ...
... ...
Woke up again when they are large tracts of white. In the end what happened, I rubbed his head pain. I got up and saw a small bed sleeping tummy H. I get out of bed ready to pour water to drink, accidentally awakened by a small H. He looked up and I just saw, gauze wrapped around his head. I was surprised at him, he smiled and said: "Nothing, small injuries." Suddenly my mind flashed the vicissitudes of that obscure the face and fight scenes. I anxiously asked: "that person? Is he?" Flashing in his eyes: "That ... ... uncle went out to buy lunch you had." I have no doubt. "Oh yeah, the doctor said you okay, just been too scared, you need a good rest." I nodded, drinking water quickly and to sleep.
Four
I dreamed a group of people around the shore of a packed. I clawed through the crowd, come to my eyes is a puddle of blood red lake, floating inside a person. Frightened people pointing. Gradually the man floating past, distorted face broke into my eyes, I suddenly screamed scared ... ...
I shoved it sat up in bed, sleeping little H to shake again: "that person? Where is he? You are not cheating me?" Dream scene so realistic I shudder. Small H bleary-eyed at me, half did not regain consciousness. I let him rushed to the door, but it happened crashed into the arms of a nurse. I am crazy shaking the shoulders of nurses: "My dad does?! My father?!" Nurse looked at me frightened, not far from one finger to. I ran down the direction she was referring to, the thing that catches my eye is a bolt from the blue! White lying in bed as he had been a white cloth covered in the body.
I rushed like crazy to go, burst into tears. I have never cried, even in her mother's funeral, I still like a hard bottle is not life sculpture, never leave a half tear. Can at this time, I felt what it meant to piercing! "Dad ... Dad ... ... ... ... ... sorry ... sorry ... I'm not a good daughter ..." I can no longer cry myself. I wish I was lying in this bed I have now, not my father. "Do not leave me ... do not leave me alone ... why ... why I'm alive! Why only me alive! ..."
"Who says you have to leave, who said that only you alive?" A familiar voice from behind. I am prosperous and stop crying, his face slowly turned to tears, leaning on his face I saw love and affection of small H and helpless father smiling at me. I stood up and threw his father's arms, unbridled cried aloud together. "Well, well, good, do not cry, it's all a big girl." Coax me like a child as he patted me on the back side edge, said. "Even strangers can get your 'Chrysostom' shouted 'dad', that I have honored can also get it?" I left his arms, looked at his loving face dripping shouted pumping pumping sound "father." His sense of humor replied: "thank Her Majesty the Queen." I suddenly breaks through his tears.
Back to the ward, I photographed a small slap on the head H: "You idiot! My dad say nothing to you straight on the line, and evasive of doing." He looked at me and touched his head wronged: "My uncle was wound more more, I'm not afraid of you worried that you would like to deceive you two days! "he said, I noticed that my father not only gauze wrapped around his head, with arms and legs are wrapped around. I hastened to my father who volts, check the wound. He poured a little embarrassed, flattered, said: "no harm, no harm." Then my father put the case of a full day to tell me. The original, one month can not find my father, anxious to find a small H will ask for my whereabouts. In the father's repeated requests, the small H told my father the truth. And that day, my father intends to take me back, good communication with me and advised me to go back to school. Thus, under the leadership of a small H, I happened to see that fuzzy scene. "But the two of you fight so many people ..." I have some hesitation. "I'm an early age by my mother forced to grow up practicing taekwondo. I did not expect also come in handy." Little H said proudly. "However, we rushed to see that you have been bullied, I would direct the police, good police to also timely, now the bad guys are locked up." Little H added. "It's strange, they are in jail, how do you will be fine?" I said suspiciously. Dad smiled and looked kind of small H. I suddenly understood. I picked up the apple on the table fiercely bite, muttered vague: "amazing money ah?" Dad laugh and small H, the whole room suddenly filled with the taste of happiness.
Five
After discharge, all went back to the original track. No, it's track.
As I returned to school the night before, my father took my hand and my long talk for a long time.
"Now, you grow up, lift the misunderstanding of the time." Sighed my father, with his right.
"You always think your mother's death is caused by the fact, I have a very good relationship with your mother, or that is wishful thinking. Seventeen years ago, your mother has a very handsome boyfriend, they are in love, the man to a soldier you have to wait until his mother returned from military service, but it is mended until the train he was riding the bridge fall car crash news. your mother suddenly collapsed, the whole person as a vegetative state generally sluggish. I, as your mother at the time of admirers, watching how all this heartache. your mother's mother, that is, your grandmother, it is sad curse them Nie Yuan. my grandmother, your mother's good to see you in the eyes, in mind. six months after your grandmother to your mother marry me. married, we changed the city life, under the care of my, your mother gradually restored the vigor, with vitality. just from your mother 'wake up' after, but then did not mention the past, when I thought your mother determined to forget the past, choose to accept life now. ... ... I did not expect students to meet until three years ago, someone accidentally forgot to say of the mouth mentioned the past. your mother has returned to face 34 years ago, sluggish without vitality. I was scared. Who knows your mother actually all right, she calmly told me that she remembered something she wanted to to deal with, you know it selective amnesia? the original did not mention the year because of selective amnesia and can not remember, she said students told her that when her boyfriend did not die, but more serious injuries in the local treatment of delayed meet the day and a year later, the men returned home fully recovered, but that your mother has been married and happy life with the message, so the men had to leave, disappeared in all line of sight. say three years ago, your mother decided to embark on a journey to find him, I did not stop, I know, not me, I eventually unable to retain. Three months later, your mother came back she told me that he was dead, this time is really dead. Then they laughed and I realized something was wrong, the next day, accompany you every day my mother, out of fear of her accident. but the fate of the people get. you remember that the world is a heavy rain it? day, you called to say you want me to go to dinner comes the reckoning, I rush to pick you up. back when they see your mother has been lying on the ground floor, beautiful and despair ... perhaps, your mother always Seventeen years ago deep in pain and unable to extricate themselves, and ultimately choose to follow the man away, while you insist that I got him for days your mother angry, heartbroken mother jump under the floor, then I hate to put the bones in the ... "
At this point, I had the burst into tears. "You are very great." I said. Dad waved a wry smile, his eyes showing sadness imperceptible. "That woman ... ... that is how the hotel is it?" I asked. "Her name is Lin and I love your mother how long, how long she loved me." Faint father said. My mouth fell open. "The ... ... can not afford." I looked down apologetic. "Nothing, fortunately you finally grow up, talk to you to say these things, and my heart much more relaxed." Dad hearty smile. "Then why not tell me before? You told me that I know that it can not misunderstand you." I am not willing to ask. "" Because the light is not enough to understand, but also understanding. You did not touch love, I tell you, how can you appreciate the big people's emotional entanglements it? "My father's eyes light reveals a sly, I am not reflect over, froze in place.
Dad got up and walked into the bedroom, and went out for a while, meaningful asked: "Even my daughter knows that cherish the people around him, then can I also cherish the happiness?" I suddenly realized, suddenly ashamed flushed. By this time, my father has the cunning of the "bang" shut the door. I beat his bedroom door: "Dad, do not talk nonsense Oh, I can look down that stupid." "Liar heart rate will accelerate." Room father's voice came faintly. I subconsciously put his hand on his chest, thinking it is true. Surprisingly, at this time but suddenly the door opened, I quickly hands down, but still he saw. I stood there embarrassed, the father did not laugh at me, but Languo my head in my forehead gently kiss: "My daughter and lively, a long absence." I saw his eyes flashing a little bit of tears. "And Aunt Lin married, bless you." I smiled at him, it actually fills the eyes with tears.
First day back to school, a small sticky gooey H will come up to me struck up a conversation. "That ... you did not have chemical reference books, give me through this." Skilled he said. I stared at him: "trying to use? You can not buy any books at home?" See I see through his ruse, he stammered: "I would like other people, and how?" "Do not think I do not know , the day the person is that you hold me! dare disarray of me, bully me now let you know in the end! "I ran after him full campus, bursts of summer wind blew from the ears, the original was actually living so beautiful.
This salvation, in a strong affection and love in the beautiful sweet ending.
Bloom off worthy to be straight off, no flowers be empty Mo broken branches. Treasure in front of people, is the most important, is not it.

Unnecessary to do in life to prepare

There is a saying, known as "clear umbrella, full with dry food" is out in front to be prepared in case showers and hunger. By extension, many aspects of life are prepared to do, exams, marriage, race, opened talks ... Of course, there do not have to do to prepare.
Do not have to do once they become rich preparation. Who does not like poverty, no one wants to end in disappointment, the reason why we busted their ass to accumulate wealth, want nothing more than over the life of the more enjoyably. However, the rich is a concept? Considered to what extent the rich rich? Have considered to what extent there? There is no set number. And happy or not, happy or not, with the rich and not so much. Honest labor, the wisdom to operate, is serious. Those who receive a salary, and living beyond, their families, and occasionally whimsical, daydreaming can be down, but always assume they have a fortune flying operation, once riches life, and always ready for this, it is not normal nerve . Perhaps, not heading for the full day, people become crazy or insane.
Not prepared to do overnight. Full of noise and disturbance in this age of overnight success story seems to increase more and more true. As everyone knows, this is self-deception, is deceptive. Where there overnight? So and so overnight it? Simply do not fly! Super Girl, fast men, Avenue of Stars, before the draft, how many people sing the night? How many night jump? How many stayed the night? Have you thought about it? Those we call the "star" that "Star", not overnight, but the name was a night that we know. So, prepare to do a lifetime of obscurity, not to do at once well-known preparations. Perhaps, down, and sincerely, practicing a corresponding character, temperament and ability, as well as a reputation of hope.
Do not have a pleasant journey of preparation. Notice life's long road, good times less stress and more, less successful, failed, and this is like river lines, the day as normal natural menstrual days. Life, loss, hitting the wall, rough, all kinds of disasters, often unexpected, and may be a string to come, not impede, intercept is not stopped. What a pleasant journey where it? If so, then let it come. Not escape, do not complain, but do not give up. Dedication, it regrets.
Do not have to do to prepare long life. This world where eternal things? Seasons, illness and death, life must experience. We are eager to family often can be parents, spouses and children, these blood vessels attached to the loved ones, or we accompany them a ride, or they stay with us a ride, and certainly not for life, forever. As a friend, partner and acquaintances, but also together from many, many hours together less, there may be bad faith, parted ways, and dare not expect a long long time? The only thing we can do is to cherish, to take advantage of. And not other misfortune, and missed, lost, only to upset.
In short, some preparation is necessary, some preparation is not the. Do not have to prepare for, do not bother, energy costs, and also because I wanted a white thought, might as well do not want to. In short, ready to not ready, is to have a good life, at worst prepared to fight for the best, will line up.

Persist, more focused

Half a century, Warren Buffett has been right to seize the opportunity. **** For the investors, he made a surprising long-term investment returns, and even some scholars are afraid to believe that this is just fluke.
Buffett himself attributed his success to "focus." Schroeder wrote: "In addition to his focus on the commercial activities, such as almost all other art, literature, science, travel, architecture, etc. are all deaf - so he can concentrate on pursuing their passion." Schroeder said in a child , Warren would carry forward their most valuable asset, coin changer. And ten years old, his father offered to take his trip, he asked to go New York Stock Exchange. Soon after, Buffett read a book called "1000 earned $ 1,000 bills," the book, his friends said to be a millionaire before 35. "In 1941, the worldwide Great Depression, a child can say a case can be really audacious, sounds downright a bit Shade," Schroeder wrote. "But ... he was sure that they can achieve this dream."
1991 U.S. Independence Day weekend, Buffett and Gates met. The meeting was Katharine Graham and her own, "Washington Post" editor Meg Greenfield carried out under the initiative.
For Gates, Buffett is still very much appreciated, even though he was older than Buffett, 25 years old, he knew that Bill Gates is a very intelligent person, but more importantly, has the two is the "blessing Jacobs' wealth standings competing to be the object of more people. However, to Warren Buffett for the IT people are not cold personality, he is certainly not to join Catherine weekend trip, but to persuasion in Greenfield, Buffett shaken. Greenfield told him: "You will certainly like Gates's parents, but also a lot of interesting people will go." Ultimately, Buffett agreed.
Buffett thought of seeing them, Gates's mind it not the same? "My mother and I talked about, and the conclusion is that the mother asked me, asked me why I do not come to dinner at home? I told her I was too busy I can not get away, but she moved out of Katharine Graham and Buffett two people, said they have participated in! "But," I told my mother that I would take the money for that stock options investment in people do not play ** Yi Xing Guo  pure fancy homes cut back  Huan saddle blanket removal of mold  Yi Lan Huang and Huan-iron pot Gun Na! However, in the mother's insistence, I agreed. "
For the first time we met two giants, many people are carefully observed. At least on one point, Buffett and Gates are similar, if they are not keen topic, they will try to choose to end. Gates for poor people to hide their patience already heard, while Buffett, although the feeling of boredom in the face when the topic turned to walk away he will not find the book in advance to see, but he still has his own way, he would the first time to his interest in the topic never freed.
In the exchange with Gates, Buffett as usual, there is no transition language straight to the topic, he asked Gates about the future trend of IBM's problems, he also asked Gates whether Microsoft, IBM has become quite a lot competitors, and the information industry companies change so fast why not? Gates 11 to make a reply. He told the two Buffett to buy technology stocks: Intel and Microsoft. Gates questions turn, he made the newspaper to the other economic problems, Buffett said bluntly newspaper economy is one step towards the abyss of destruction, and other media that has a direct relationship to flourish. Just a few minutes, two people full access to the in-depth exchange of state.
We have been in the chat, endless, did not notice the others. I asked him a lot about the IT industry, but I never thought to belong to him to understand that industry. Gates is a very good teacher, we have no one to talk to the end of this idea.
Buffett and Gates talk while walking from the garden to the beach, and people are competing trailing. "We did not notice the existence of these people here, do not find that there are many important people around, but finally can not see Bill Gates's father passed, he was very gentleman told us he wanted us to integrate into our this party, do not always two people talking. "
Bill began trying to convince me after buying a computer, but I told him I do not know what computers can do for me, I do not mind if I change the curve of specific investment projects, I do not want every five minutes to look at the results, I told him I to grasp all this very clearly. But Bill did not give up, he said to send Microsoft the most beautiful lady to sell me the sales of Microsoft products, so she taught me how to use the computer. Very interesting the way he spoke, I told him: "You let out a condition can not refuse, but I still refused."
Until the sun sets, cocktail party started, they talk not over yet. When Gates came before the plane would leave in the evening, but the aircraft away, Gates did not go, he is still enjoying the pleasure of chatting with Buffett.
Dinner time, Gates's father asked you a question, the most important person's life is what? My answer is "focused", while Bill and I have the same answer!
When Warren Buffett says "focus" word, do not know how many people here can understand his meaning of the word, but has been focused on Warren Buffett is an important first line guide. Focus on that? For the pursuit of perfection, and this disposition is peculiar, not Who got the imitation will be able to imitate.
Focus not only do things the key to success is a healthy soul qualities. Focus is to concentrate attention to something above, and the things you care about integration, not to be attracted to other foreign objects will not linger on the anxiety.
People who can not concentrate, it can not relax. Focus and relaxation, in fact, just two sides of same coin, being focused is a key characteristic of life.
A focus on one thing only investment will be fun. For one thing, no matter what your past its prejudices, think how boring it is, once you focus into it, it immediately becomes a living together! And a most beautiful state, is to enter the living state.
Focus for the pursuit of professional excellence, precisely because of focus, only the achievements of Thomas Edison, the United States, the greatest inventor in history; It is because of focus before the birth of Walt Disney's animation of the world-renowned father; It is because of focus, just to let everyone know the United States Godfather of Soul James Brown. Similarly, the focus or determination to complete the great cause, otherwise, people will not see the first woman legislator Jane Nite Lan gold against all the odds against the United States in two world wars, which wars to the world in addition to disaster is painful.
Take the analogy on my own, I have insisted, but not enough focus. Because I work more messy, takes up a lot of valuable time. Although I have also considered hard, the concentration of ideas, doing things in focus, or poor. I also must continue our efforts in future be focused, do not run out of steam. This is done the cause of the taboo.

All my fault

Opened and closed the same

Nothing to see anything

Like what is in my dream

What they like with me wake up with

What's that

Feel very familiar

I may have been previously

But

It has been impossible to come back

I always thought it was a dream

A dream not yet done

Will think of my dream heart pain

I forget does not fit

That haunted feeling

Can he take away

Can he do not want to

Can you lock him

Although the fuzzy picture

But I was reluctant to wipe

Shed his tears on me

Do not care struggle

I thought that he cares about me

Maybe it is just their imagination

It all becomes so painful

My memory is left is for you or to me

I do not know exactly

If tomorrow you grow up

You will not want to leave me

I no longer want to hold your hand

I feel I can not put into words

You look forward every day to escape from my hands

I know what's shaking

Happy memories of the past

I know all my fault

Should not be too early to fall in love with you

There is not much reason to

What amount of entanglement is not

In fact, you do not have to explain too much

I understand all I know is because you do not love me

Too much can damage the pursuit of deeper

Looking back, I will miss you

I heard the news about you is so urgent, they fear

Helpless in the heart-breaking but I know I know

Too many years later you will also pay a lot of people love

My heart hurt to feel disappointment and frustration experience

The future the way ... ... I am here to wish you a pleasant journey



I blame too early or too early exposure to contact with you love, when you leave, I know you are my love. Of the reach of love

You are my sunshine

The rain stopped

Rainbow hanging in the sky

You hold me gently

We use this colorful decoration house

Clouds are warm bed

I looked on your arm into the night sweet dreams

You want all of our fun collection

Seasoned going anywhere when the

I speak slowly

We close our eyes to share this life with joy

You are my sunshine hits

Light up my world, every place

You are my sunshine hits

Gave me a warm paradise

You are my sunshine hits

Since then, I dream to fly with you

Overcome phobias

I recently changed a new job quickly cause the boss to pay attention, pay the early realization of the lofty ideal of promotion, I quickly put myself into overtime queen. Think about it, even if the boss and then a heart of stone, watching the time cards on time and the string of shocking spate of excellent programs, they have Anjiao out "talent" it! Retention method, is nothing less than promotion and pay, as an excellent office politician, I am very proud for their own strategy.
Everything under control, but the only thing I have always felt very painful. Midnight the evening, when I want to turn off all the lights, the darkness slowly groped door. Spat does not matter, the most horrible thing is that I always worried that the empty chair, suddenly stood up a person, earnest said to me: Hello ... ... every time I gingerly through the building, standing brightly lit the street, there will be another man's sense of the world.
Career in overtime day after day, more and more I am afraid of the dark level, and once I work, do not know where a sound came, I started to cry bang wow. Since then, whenever the black point where I do not dare to sleep at night should turn on the lights, the natural overtime promotion plans fell through. But three years of the mortgage pressure on the body, how can I this willing?
I found a psychiatrist, tells of my fear, after listening to him, smiled and showed me a stack of anonymous medical records, I am feeling much better after reading: halo of blood in patients with high fear patients, interpersonal communication disorders ... they I fear a serious degree than many people saw the needle for example, would immediately fainted.
The doctor said, the basic fear of all patients chose to escape to the problem. Afraid of what is the safest way to escape, but would encourage people to avoid fears, anxiety will lead to double. If you want to cure, the best way is exposure therapy - to face what you fear.
Doctors voice I hear, I want to throw hand holds the medical records of the past. I am afraid of the dark come to you doctor, you told me back in the dark to cure. This is no difference with the disregard for human life, ah, no wonder that many scientists simply do not recognize it is a scientific psychology.
Doctors see that my anger you, and quickly handed me a stack of thank you letters, saw those phobia many thanks, I hesitated an instant. He told me on the situation: exposure to technology in three, the traditional exposure, cognitive and interpersonal exposure to three, traditional emphasis is brave to face the reality of fear, such as fear of heights, fear of blood, fear, claustrophobic space, cognitive exposure emphasize that the most fear in the face of thinking things, in very effective in curing anxiety, such as agoraphobia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, public speaking fear psychosis. Interpersonal relationships ... I do not need.
Afraid of the dark phobia on my terms, can be combined with traditional exposure and cognitive exposure in two ways. First, back to the dark environment, so full of fear and anxiety, physical, and then letting this feeling, fantasy, are the most terrible situation. Such as claustrophobia fear most buried alive, they imagine they are being buried alive, loud shouting, and then slowly suffocate; fear of flying can imagine yourself being a fireball has been dyed and Zhuixiang ground plane ... ... the fear Imagine what the more vivid the better, try to make their own very long time to endure anxiety and, ultimately, these feelings will disappear without a trace.
The doctor gave me a lot about the treatment of cases, fear of blood, halo elevator, the more I think about the more tricky, not one to repeat it. Finally, he particularly serious, said: Remember, to get better, the only thing to do is to try and adhere to.
With his advice, the next day for a long time to work through the tangled and painful, a bite, you press the switch to their true place in darkness.
Moment, I fell into a huge panic anxiety, the feeling of darkness filled with danger, the only remaining awake continuously reminded me that doctors think about it, so hard I fear the worst imagined scenario.
The most frightening thing is ... ... there is a faceless ghost come out, think of here, I cried wow bang, but with constantly think of fear, I slowly filled with many details, such as he spoke to me and asked Why am I not go, I should answer him in overtime; if his hideous harm to come to me, I asked him why he want to do ... ... I kept thinking, become a ghost is not terrible, gradually, I think their own ridiculous, as a science enthusiast, I actually believe this kind of thing a ghost.
Well, the other terrible criminals, if people want to jump out to a robbing Jiese ... I will give him all the money, Jiese how to do? Although it is humiliating to think of it, but imagine the next day the whole world know I was robbed of color, I would become calm, and this is not my fault, I can not get hurt by a penalty themselves. If he kill me? I debated with him to kill me is meaningless, if you really kill me? Tomorrow I wrote to my mother put the bank password ... ...
In short, I was shaking in the dark imagination of all the terrible things, and eventually found that most problems can be solved, can not be resolved and must be faced. Anxiety a little bit away from my body, in the end, my magic back to a calm state. Calm the lock, out, stand on the street, I really realized that my fear is their own imagination, the emotions are ridiculous advance.
By this time I try, I finally believe the doctor said that the hateful words sound simple: you have to face the things you most fear, to be able to tolerate living and the resulting anxiety, until it finally disappears. The key is to have the courage to make this attempt.
I now not only pay, but also a promotion. Although the new fear into the loss of all of this, but I already know how to deal with it. Boss threw a bag of worms install a big deal on the table, another company from the overtime began chanting, since I am now totally afraid of dark.