Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Believe they can do it

1 Do not lose ambition and desire for ambition and desire (in this case is a positive state of the ambitions and desires) can make a person's power play to the extreme, a person can be forced to devote all to remove all obstacles, they can make a person full speed ahead without worry. Therefore, we should maintain a kind of ambition and desire, not to lose them.

2. Do not success look too complex

In fact, success is not so complicated as we look, and sometimes more simple and more likely to succeed - although it sounds a bit weird. Sometimes we should let the mind simple, simple to complex ways of doing things, often receive unexpected results.

3. A man has to be honest and trustworthy

Bacon said: "honesty is the first principle of doing things." Friends , no matter where you are, inexperienced or experienced things change, marshes, you believe that integrity , maintain integrity, commitment to integrity. You can hold the soul of the contract, to win a man's dignity , will eventually achieve something great cause.

4. Believe they can do it

Even if a man do not believe, but also expect others to believe? To believe that they can do it. With a strong self-confident heart of the people, able to withstand a variety of tests, setbacks and failures , this self-confidence make us good enough for a lifetime.

5. Withstood the test of suffering

Suffering is an asset, it will temper the people's will, people get life 's true meaning. Chinese idiom that hard work brings. Another one said, to eat of hardship, square man Exalted. These are encouraging people to withstand the test of suffering, in the face of suffering, when to be patient , to have hope , only to maintain such a state of mind, only to life the glory.

6. Full use of all available resources

Our own resources are limited, but the resources around us is infinite, to be successful people, we must have this idea: from now on, use its own resources, the use of the resources around, using all available resources - To do this is not difficult.

7. Lend a hand, from the little things

In the present competitive era, like all of a sudden fame has become a reality . Big business are often made ​​of a piece by a trivial achievement, we want to lend, not dismissive of the small, down from the little things, in many cases, it is the little things determine our success or failure.

8. Be a person of integrity

The most basic criterion is that a man of integrity. Integrity, is to have responsibility for a sense of telling the truth, do solid work, for anything, they adhere to the principles of both peace of mind. Integrity is a virtue in life, but also a man of a positive attitude. Do an honest person, it will not violate their own conscience, to be worthy of "human" word.

9. How to get to learn to work

Increasing the probability of change and change accelerating today, it is impossible to follow the beaten track progress. Each person must have a willingness to change the mentality in order to keep up with the times. May wish to own a tree, motto - "the same barrier, a change to pass."

10. Decision to dare to do things

In general, a person to do things before the first decision, whether the decision will dare to directly determine victory or defeat. When in distress to calm and analysis, decision courage, do not hesitate, even more importantly, after the decision to get down to do it.

11. Failure as a stepping stone to success

We are not afraid to fail, there must be "keep on fighting," the spirit of the failure as a stepping stone to success, when you defeat more for a long time, you will be successful from getting closer. Of course, you must have sufficient ability to resist failure, and continue to go to work ahead.

12. To leave room for everything

A person in order to survive and develop well, we should do "Jiaotusanku", everything should leave room for himself. We must have this sense: when we choose a path, we should also prepare for their second road, a third way.

13. Learn to choose, know how to give up

A person to learn to give up, give up you do not want to do; a person to learn to choose, choose you like and do good things. As long as you are on the road in your life, find the coordinates of your life, you will be able to give full play to their wisdom, to reach the other side of success.

14. The one thing stick with it

Do any one thing, have beginnings and ends, insisted it done. Do not give up, if you give up, you will never be successful. If the setbacks, you have to repeatedly tell myself: this thing stick with it.

15. Give yourself a little courage

A lot of things on the surface it seems very difficult to complete, in fact very simple, as long as we take a little courage to try, they tend to receive unexpected results. Each of us has the courage, which is used up our own wealth, to know how to reasonably use, otherwise wasted.

16. The face of competition to make himself stronger

Competition is a common phenomenon, no escape , one can not exist from the competition. In the face of challenges, in addition to maintain good sports: the state, but also to focus on personality, in terms of knowledge, in wisdom, in strength to redouble their growth , become more mature , more powerful, can defeat opponents.

The defect into forward momentum

17. Rely on their own solve the problem

Do not always rely on others to have all our hopes on others, but to rely on their own solve the problem, because everyone there are many things to do, he just can maximize the potential to help us, help may be only temporary, but others can not help I know. Therefore, reliance is had, most people can only rely on your own.

18. To say "no" to say "no"

How to get to learn to say no, to say "no" to say "no", which is to rightfully protect themselves, but also a principle of doing things. Do not hesitate and have the courage to say "no" to cleverly put "no" to speak out, otherwise, by the damage will be your own.

19. Willing to accept other people's objections

We often encounter people of opposing views, but willing to accept opposing views, not many people that we need to put right state of mind. In fact, the objections of others more or less some truth, for the proper objection, we should embrace, for the wrong objection, we do not need to vehemently refute. Learn to accept the objection, can we become outstanding.

20. Continue to motivate and shape their own

Everyone can not always be full of passion and fighting spirit, so we need to constantly motivate yourself to keep the passion and fighting spirit. Do not attempt to live in someone else's motivation, the self-motivation is the most effective incentives. No one can really change you, only you can change yourself.

21. The defect into forward momentum

There are shortcomings and even our own physical defects is not terrible, terrible is that we become passive, or even give up. In the defect before us, we have to maintain a positive attitude, the regret into our struggle for power, the only way we can determine its own destiny .

22. Work is work, life is life

Pursuit of the perfect life is the innate human need to focus only on career success, job loss of life, is life defect. Work is work, life is life, do not lose their lives to work. We should do a good job at the same time, do not overlook life.

23. Early elimination of emotional disgust post

You are tired of your current job? I think most of the answer is yes. Tired of feeling that we have lost staff to work fun, but also seriously affect our work and life, we should eliminate it as soon as possible. To eliminate the post of disgust emotions, it is necessary to maintain a good working attitude, learn to love their job, reasonable arrangements for work and life, in order to retrieve an otherwise full of passion and vitality of their own.

24. Learn to work decompression

Working pressure is usually everyone but the advent of a serious problem. Too much pressure will not only crowd out happy , but also related to personal career development, health, family harmony, and many other elements of life. Therefore, we must work to have a correct understanding of stress and learn to their work decompression, and only let themselves out of work pressure, we will live easily.

25. Happy at work is to maintain

Want to work boring or full of joy? I am afraid no one would choose the former. In fact, work is work, it can never be the same as the resort is full of novelty and joy , in which the key is how you find and create joy. As long as you really look for, and happiness will come.

26. Open your mind

No matter what, just surprising to winning, which is a superior work attitude. Surprising is that other people do not want to think, do other people do not do it, the only way you can in the competition. But to surprisingly, it is necessary to open the closed minds, and perhaps a new innovative, it is possible to improve our work performance, change our lives.

27. With the patience to wait for success

Success often depends on each individual's success and failure of attitude . As the old man said: The road to success, you do not have the patience to wait for the arrival of success, then you had the patience to face with life failure. In other words, success only favors the patient man.

28. Studious will be successful

Brilliant, witty clever, heroic courage of a person important condition for a successful career, but these are not the most important and most important is that we must studious. Studious to have help in the field, live and learn and overcome difficulties in the spirit, will really have achieved, learned to use.

29. We need a spirit of adventure

The phrase "seek wealth and risk", these words makes sense. Although we do not agree blindly adventure, but we really do need a spirit of adventure. Because complacent, lazy never move forward, because the opportunity for success are often the most popular adventurous people.

30. Do not blindly imitate others

You can imitate others, but not blindly to imitate. Do not live in someone else's shadow, you are you, other than a replica. Great strides forward, leaving their own footprints to be able to live out the true you.

31. Good at creating and seizing opportunities

Opportunities for people who wants to succeed is the most valuable, the opportunity will patronize everyone, missed opportunities, and then talented people will be buried life. A person will not always face the opportunities, which need to rely on your own to create opportunities. You know, to seize and create opportunities, you must pay the actual action.

32. Do not be intimidated by setbacks

Everyone's life will encounter many setbacks or small or large, which no one could be avoided. In the face of setbacks, we should not be intimidated, should face the frustration of it as a test of our success, strong and continue to go on, frustration will be your stepping stone.

Tolerance is a high level of life

33. Maintain a creative thinking

Innovative thinking is a positive attitude, who has become a major event where innovative thinking beyond the ordinary. In the face of brutal competition, innovative thinking will give the parties to bring vigor and vitality. There is no doubt that we have to maintain a creative thinking, new ideas to break the convention with the concept, beyond their past, to be invincible.

34. Objective treatment of the cause of the "bottleneck" period

Everyone will experience the cause of the "Bottle King" period, at this time, not upset, do not despair disappointment , not to give up on themselves when the cause of stagnation, not outstanding vitality, or should rethink their choice.

35. And maintain mental health concerns

Mental health is an important part of mental unhealthy if a person will have a mental illness. Mental illness can lead to many diseases and can increase some of the diseases will seriously affect our health. Therefore, we must pay attention and maintain mental health, to do this, the most important is to have a positive and uplifting positive attitude.

36. Do in order to face the living death

Face can not do, can not be. We must on this issue have a correct understanding. Otherwise, thought to be the face, and in fact is often lost face, losing face may be a small matter, but in order to save face if it is not worth living death.

37. Treat yourself, love yourself

Others may let you down, but you can not let our. For their own good, cherish yourself, love yourself, is a basic requirement, is also responsible for their own performance. Every living person in this world, no matter when, no matter what happens to be kind to yourself.

38. Do not waste valuable time

We spend much money can not buy the moment, there is nothing in this world more precious than time. We can not retain the time, but we can cherish the time. To cherish the time, the most important thing is to rational and effective use of time. We should cherish the time this concept deeply rooted in my heart, do not waste each day.

39. Change their use of self-suggestion

Do not let the negative control of their self-suggestion, use positive self-suggestion to change yourself. The positive self-suggestion for repeated practice, you can let us use some of the more positive ideas and concepts to replace our old past, negative thinking, which is a positive frame of mind, in short is a change the mentality of the method.

40. A man should dare to express themselves

Peers is that people consciously to others to show their talents, knowledge, achievement of desire. For us, the desire to enhance their positive performance of the Endeavor is a pro-people's intrinsic motivation. Who owns it, who will gain more opportunities to develop their own, so close to the other side of success.

41. Courage others to recommend their

There are many opportunities in life is to rely on themselves to fight. If you have the ability, you should volunteered to go to that many people can not be competent for the task, you can just show you volunteered there, your chances of success will also be greatly increased.

42. Do not have "underappreciated" in a sense

The reason why "underappreciated", mostly by self-inflicted. Do not have "underappreciated," the feeling , because it will become a psychological burden on you, seriously affect your normal state of mind. Therefore, we must in earnest to do his own thing, even if really is a waste of talent, it should be happy.

43. Immediate action

Immediate action, do not have any delays. All the world to know that the plan will not help you succeed, in order to achieve the ideal , you have to hurry up. The road to success has a thousand, but each successful action is necessary to pay, the action is a shortcut to success.

44. Do not let your hesitation imprisoned

In today's world, full of opportunities, but opportunities are disappearing off the vertical, if given the opportunity, they should grasp, we must decisively, to act boldly, not hesitant, otherwise You will be forever standing there watching someone else succeed.

45. Should be thrifty whenever

Extravagance is a shameful act, thrift is a virtue. Whenever we have to practice thrift, when thrift poor, but also to the rich when the thrift. Only then can we hold the rich, and will be more rich.

46. Control their emotions

Some people come as long as the emotional one, they refused to take anything, what would all say, nothing daring, this is very dangerous. There is a saying: "God to destroy a person, we must first make him mad." We have to control their emotions, to do the masters of mood, and not become emotional slaves.

47. Tolerance is a high level of life

Tolerance, is how to get a positive attitude, is the familiar virtues. To be tolerant of your relatives and friends, your rivals and enemies of tolerance, which is essential at all times and the mentality of those great things. Of course, we must know that tolerance is by no means tolerate and connive, be sure to grasp the scale of tolerance and connivance, and sense of propriety - for some people not too tolerant.

48. Do not complain this complain that

Life, we often hear some grumbling. Told us many things in life: people who can not only complain about things to do well. There are also some people, even though life is very unfair to treat them, but they do not complain that this complaint, but to someone else to complain about the time in hard work, the results, they will get impressive results.

Up to make yourself happy

49. Always keep a warm heart

Without a warm heart, No matter what will not be successfully completed. Enthusiasm is a good interpersonal attitude, but also a huge potential to stimulate their own power. In the life and work, to a warm heart towards all, tend to produce a miracle.

50. Success depends on the solidarity and cooperation

"A fence three piles, one heads are better", in order to accomplish something big, we must rely on our joint efforts. In the present competitive environment, a hard world alone is unrealistic, we must have the spirit of unity and cooperation with others, to be able to play a central advantage in career success.

51. Shut out of fear

Everyone will have a variety of fears, these fears are not only a psychological shadow, more importantly, it will hinder your actions. How to overcome fear? The most effective way: to shut out the fear. Or, to be brave in taking practical steps.

52. Set to give their target

Our life is not no goal, no goal in life is like the head did not fly. To establish their own goals, make every effort toward the goal, the reason why successful people succeed because they are able to do this. The greater a person's goals, achievements are often greater. Set himself a big target, but also to set some small goals, one by one when a small target is attained, the goals will be achieved.

53. Full of hope alive

A person who they have no hope, just like a zombie, there is no life at all. We should keep a hope in their hearts, live in hope, we will maintain morale in times of hardship, will live unrestrained.

54. Up to make yourself happy

We need most is to be happy, a happy person is full of happiness for. Since we like happiness, we should make up their own happiness, the key is to have a happy state of mind, with the happy state of mind, happiness will not go elsewhere, it can only stay with us.

55. To maintain a positive attitude

Optimists see anything optimistic, no matter where, will be welcomed by others, and, success and health will accompany him. Pessimistic people are just the opposite. We have to keep a positive attitude, be a positive person, our lives will shine.

56. Do not let too tired to live his life

A person's life that it is very long, but in fact it was too soon. Compared with the whole of history, it is fleeting and ephemeral moment. Therefore, we should forget the unhappy, can not look for trouble , not to let their "Huode Lei."

57. Get affordable, let

Each of us has a lot of "baby", but what you can not have been, at some point we must learn to get affordable, let go. Afford to take courage, let go is magnanimous, is starting to get valuable, put it down is to transcend. The greatest respect is to get affordable, life is the greatest comfort let go.

58. Should exercise patience when dealing with others

As the old saying goes, "resolute into gold," Confucius once said, "small leak will sink a great ship", which shows patience for ourselves how important it is. Whether colleagues or neighbors, whether between friends or between husband and wife, are the need for mutual tolerance, personal behavior is a necessary state of mind.

59. A man to harbor Thanksgiving

Because alive, so be grateful. Thanksgiving is a tolerant and open-minded, is a great sentiment. Everything in the world worthy of our gratitude, we will live more beautiful .

60. No need to get angry

Anger will be a waste of time, it will hurt others, it will hurt themselves, but also cause serious tragedies. In fact, think about it, anger is really not worth it, no good to ourselves in person. The short life so beautiful, we really do not need to get angry.

61. Do not own sorry

Our way of doing things when problems arise, the vast majority of our own reasons. Whether a man or to do things, to be flexible, do not make life difficult for themselves, especially not with their sorry, this is a manifestation of their own responsibility.

62. To be diligent, not lazy

We look at those careers, and both are diligent hard work, and laziness is the greatest enemy of success. In today's society , an attempt something for nothing is impossible and unrealistic. For us to diligently do not be lazy, just as important as not fail to be successful.

63. To develop good savings habits

If no savings, many of our plans will be meaningless. Opportunities exist in various locations, but only available to those in the hands of people who have the money, or those who have to develop savings habits, and who know how to use the money. We must cultivate the good habit of saving, not only is the work of the capital, is a virtue.

64. Learned to accept and treat

Whether we are willing to acknowledge lessons learned are objective, who can not find the lesson is in fact avoid conflict. Lesson is the frustration with the failure of rational thinking, is a valuable asset in life, we must accept the lesson, treat lessons. Although the experience can help you find one, but the lessons it can make you good enough for a lifetime.

65. To praise someone else

You know, everyone likes praise from others. As long as the appropriate and timely praise, not only can eliminate the barriers between people and enhance mutual affection, more importantly, make you popular in the communication field. Remember: Do not begrudge you praise, praise to give a timely manner to others.

66. Do not care about is getting old

Most people are afraid of getting older, but also afraid of old people say that they, in fact, this need. One can always change slowly change the fact that we should frankly face, and slowly change from the old to find fun, and only getting older, we can slowly enjoy life.

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